LADIES: Would you hire someone to follow your man around to see if they were secretly gay?
You know how people get exposed (ex. usually married men) for being homosexual, and its like the wife was totally clueless and shocked about finding out?
Would you hire some kind of private eye or something to follow him around, especially after you seem to notice some "suspicious" behavior?
How would react to finding out your man was sleeping with men behind your back?
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No, walking in and catching my ex-husband orally satisfying another man was enough to prove to me that he was at least bi. I left him and our divorce was final in less than 3 months.
If I were to suspect my (current and last) husband of cheating, I would come right out and ask him. We have the agreement that if either of us feels like we would rather be with somone else, just say so…I will walk away and let you have all the fun you want.
ha ha well on top of him being a child molester and a cheat, he was also bisexual. I found him myself. That was my LAST Husband. I’ve just been SO lucky in love…
A cheater is a cheater, pop a cap in their az no matter who they cheatin’ with.
Yes! I’m very insecure! I’d be shocked! I honestly couldn’t tell you!
I wouldn’t. But if the curiousity killed you, just do it. But if I were him, I wouldn’t like it when I find out you doubted me.
No I’m not that crazy.
No I wouldn’t. And I would treat any sort of cheating the same be it with a man or woman-divorce.
No, I wouldn’t. If I found out he was gay though I’d first of all never have sex with him again, file for divorce, and encourage him to find true love with a man that makes him happy..
If I was suspicious, I would just confront him. No need to spend money on it..
Heck no. If he’s gay,then he’ll tell me when he’s ready and im going to try to support him. I wouldnt be shocked. I think it’s kinda common for people to be gay, bi, les, etc. in this generation
im a guy. and im straight buuuut im pretty bloody camp sometimes so that mite not be good if sum1 was hired to fllow me around.
hehe… well i dont think so. Id look for the signs, the out late nights, wanting "buddy time" and also the lack of sex. or the lack of being turned on by you.
….No, that’s just nosey, I’d just flat out ask them.
No I wouldn’t if I have to do all that then I would rather leave him be.
My performance is such that there is no doubt that I would even be 1% gay. If there were any threat, it would be to hire a PI to ensure I’m not doing other women.
I probabaly would hire someone if I expected my man was gay, and if I found out that he really was, I would beat the blood out of him and take everything he owned. I love gay people but I wouldn’t want to be married to one.
I would hire somebody to follow my woman around to see if they were secretly lesbian.
well, this is a tough question. No woman would ever want to hear that the man she loves is gay. But when it comes down to it, I guess I would want to know. I’m not sure if I would go as far as hiring someone to spy on him, but i’m sure many women out there would.
How would I react? I’d be shocked, hurt, and maybe even a little disturbed. It’s definitely something to think about.
No! I would trust him.
hmm no i’d probably firgure it out.
i’d be really disgusted at the thought, but then i’d let it go. i’d be ten times angrier if it was a girl
um…if i had any doubt about which way his wind blew, I’d be out the door, so it wouldn’t be neccessary
No I wouldn’t hire anyone – I would just ask him.
I think I would feel hurt that he wasn’t honest with me, but if that’s the way he wants to live his life I would exit the relationship and wish him good luck.
No, actually I would get some Vaseline and a carrot and stuff it up his b**t and see if he enjoyed it…then I would know, wouldn’t I? Why pay for someone to validate what you already know????
haha no i would NOT have my husband stalked.
I would expect him to tell me…. after all, why on earth would he want to be with me if he didn’t even like women???
*Laughs, laughs, and keeps on laughing*
You know, believe it or not, I’m actually thinking of doing just that!
*Laughs some more* *Sheds a tear*
I would, since I notice a few stares here and there
To save time and money, I would hire a sexy man to hit on him.
i actually would worry more about other woman, there’s nothing you can do if he likes men, i mean you can’t compete against, we’re like totally different……..
but either way, i wouldn’t waste money on a p.i or anything like that.-
I would never hire someone to pry into my partner’s life, I have trust for my life mate.