How do you recover from a long term relationship? :(?
Well yesterday was my ex-boyfriend’s birthday and we didn’t talk, we just argued and we fight a lot. And it seems like sicne we brok up las week he’s having the time of his life. How can I just walk away from a 2 year relationship jus like that? I gave up all my friends for him so basically we were each others best friends and we hang out everyday, and the next day how can I just deal with not having him there and just going my own path doing my own thing. it’s so scary just facing everything alone because I became so attach and depended that he’ll always be there for me. basically i am trying to ask is how can one day we be so loving and sh*t and at the end of the night we argue and break up and when the next day rolls around, how can I just get up and move on and live my own life now. i feel so depress and I can’t even focus in school or work anymore. everything i do reminds me of him and I can’t seems to shake him off. i love him and i wish we can be back together but he said no =(
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I am in the same exact situation right now. Well it wasn’t 2 years but over 10 months. I guess that isn’t as long. But anyways, at school, try to meet new friends or reconnect with your old friends. You must of had a best friend before you two started dating. Talk to them. Who do you go to when you are sad besides him?
Maybe also give it time. If he truly loved you, he will come back. I am trying to work with the girl I love and trying to get back with her after a rough break. But as of now, don’t let that stop you from doing what you need to accomplish in life. We all need to be independent and not be TOO dependant on others. Be strong and things will work out for you.
Girl be strong and NEVER take him back. Just let it go. If you look at my questions I’ve been through something similar. I thought at times reading your entry that I was reading my own writing. The word you used *scary* is so true. It’s been a week since me and my boyfriend have broken up and I’m getting out with friends, going on dates, watching movies and keeping a journal so I can remember how strong I am and how week I’ve had to be to get here. Remember he is having the time of hid life why shouldn’t you? There will be times you break down, let it happen but remember even if you cry so hard you can’t move the next day will be ok because you deserve to find the love you want. Maybe in time he will tell you his reasons but wait to talk to him until you have healed. Good luck and huge hugs, it’s not easy.
i guess he was really pissed off at your for not giving you a second chance…
get your gf’s advice about him..
is he worth the time and money ? if he is not, there are plenty of loving guys waiting for your passion and love . ..
just buck up and look further !