My brother has gone mental. so much fights. help?
Ok not really mental. But his whole attitude has changed completely ever since he started making friends with a couple of guys. Their kind of like hardcore skater guys. Like they do a lot of daring things. But not really life threatening. My brother is 16 yrs old btw. He has gotten in trouble more because they pressure him and convince him to do things. And hes starting to get into fights with other guys. Like one time he came home with a black eye. Me and my brother are really close so i covered for him and kind of covered up his black eye with my make up magic. Lol. So my parents never found out about that. I hate covering for him all the time. I don’t want him to get in trouble because of his new friends. He has other friends similar to them but their more responsible and kind of conservative but still like to have fun. And they even think hes changed but my brother just brushes it off and he says that he hasn’t. He has. He used to be more responsible and care more. He dosen’t care about anything any more and all he ever does now is go out with his new friends and skateboard, stay out late and do crazy crap. I don’t know what to do and approach the situation to my brother. He always just says he dosen’t care and he hasn’t changed and is still the same person. And i’m worried they are also getting him to do drugs like smoking and drinking loads. Because one of my friends brother said that he was hanging out with him one time and my bro tried smoking a cig one of his new friends gave them. Overall – How do i make my brother see that there is something wrong with him hanging out with these guys? I don’t want my brother hating me and whatnot because i care about him. Should i tell my parents? I’m pretty sure that would make him hate me forever ;( HELP PLEASE! Oh and i’m younger than him. I’m 15. I feel i am worrying to much about the whole thing.
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I think you’ve approached this situation very maturely for a 15 year old.
You’ve done the most you can do right now. The hardest thing you might ever have to do is tell your parents. He’s getting himself in a situation that is no longer under your influence or your power to help him get out and make better decisions.
He may have some resentment towards you, but you might have saved your brother’s life/future by telling someone grown up about it.
The second thing you can do is talk to his friends that seem more mature and ask them how is he doing, and get them into the action of stopping dangerous behaviours.
I hope this helps.
He is 16 and more than likely you will not be able to make him see the error of his ways. I say you sit down with your parents and tell them everything that has been going on. Tell them you love him as your brother and that’s why you have been trying to help hide it. You’re parents will understand and will be able to handle it from there. He’s not 18 yet, so parents still play a vital role in his life right now.