I really need more advice on my ex girlfriend. I met her In November of 2008. She was the greatest thing that ever happened to me. We both fell in love, and I did a lot for her in the relationship. Cooked, bought her dinner, did all of the things that mattered. She ended up meeting a new guy 5 months into our relationship and fought and argued that entire month. He was clearly trying to steal her away from me. He offered to pay hundreds of dollars worth of bills for her after a week of knowing her! There was nothing I could do. She ended up cheating on me and left me for him. She still wanted me in her life, but I rejected. I was devastated. I was a psychological mess for months. Her relationship with that low life last maybe a couple weeks. We didn’t talk for months. A few months ago I decided I need to get over her. I deleted her off of my facebook and my phone to begin the process. A couple weeks ago she sent me a message on facebook and asked why I deleted her. I didn’t respond..I thought.."Why should I?" A few days later she sent me another message and was upset over the fact that I didn’t respond. She told me she was sorry for what she did to me. Her "new" boyfriend at the time was cheating on her. She told me she still wanted to be friends and wanted to be a part of my life. I responded back and told her how I felt about what she did to me. I told her I would think about her offer. She told me she was fine with that. She said she always worried about me, and thought it would be nice if we went out for lunch sometime. I thought about things for a few days. I realized that deep down I still loved her and missed being with her. I told her I would give things a chance. She was fine with it and told me she just wanted to be friends. She had just left her boyfriend because he cheated and wasn’t ready for anything. I told her that I wasn’t ready for anything either. I decided to be a nice guy and offered my condolences and informed her to call me if she needed someone to talk to. She sent me a text that night and thanked me for the thought, but told me she had to get over it herself. Again, she offered to go out to lunch sometime. I was fine with it, and told her to let me know when she wanted to. She wanted to start a conversation but I had to get to bed. I told her I would talk later. We didn’t speak for a few days. I ended up landing a couple hockey tickets yesterday. No one else wanted to go so I thought I would ask her. I sent her a text and asked what her plans were for Tuesday night. She never responded. Today I sent her a text and asked her if she wanted to go. She accepted and told me that it sounded like a great idea. I asked her if she received my text from yesterday, and she never responded. It’s been almost 8 hours.

It’s been 10 months since our breakup. WHY IS SHE DOING THIS? I was thinking I would give her a second chance if she proves that she’s changed..but I’m beginning to think she hasn’t. Is she taking the hard to get game to the next level? Is she confused? I really thought I had women figured out. Advice would be appreciated!


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