Comments on: i really don’t want to start my days depressed over dreams of my ex bf anymore, any suggestions? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5083/i-really-dont-want-to-start-my-days-depressed-over-dreams-of-my-ex-bf-anymore-any-suggestions/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: JC http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5083/i-really-dont-want-to-start-my-days-depressed-over-dreams-of-my-ex-bf-anymore-any-suggestions/comment-page-1/#comment-34617 JC Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:11:03 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5083/i-really-dont-want-to-start-my-days-depressed-over-dreams-of-my-ex-bf-anymore-any-suggestions/#comment-34617 YOu sight like you have some good insight into your feelings. That's great! I've been through sort of the same thing. I had a lot of bad dreams about my ex fiance after we broke up and would check up on his facebook/myspace etc which really only caused myself pain and upset. I had to learn to stop doing that. It wasn't easy at first, but you have to be disciplined and decide that you want to move on and be happy. I would tell people if I checked it (my best friend) and let her scold me. Eventually I got tired of admitting it. Saying it out loud to someone else made me feel crazy, which helped me stop the behavior As far as the dreams, I would have horrible dreams where I'd wake up jealous or angry. You can't control what you dream, but you can control what you put in your head. The less you spend looking at his stuff, and the more you spend doing other things, the more likely the dreams will go away. Mine did. I've had one or two but nothing major. Just remember that whatever he's doing is none of your business, and worrying about guys who aren't worrying about you is a waste of your precious life! YOu sight like you have some good insight into your feelings. That’s great! I’ve been through sort of the same thing. I had a lot of bad dreams about my ex fiance after we broke up and would check up on his facebook/myspace etc which really only caused myself pain and upset. I had to learn to stop doing that. It wasn’t easy at first, but you have to be disciplined and decide that you want to move on and be happy. I would tell people if I checked it (my best friend) and let her scold me. Eventually I got tired of admitting it. Saying it out loud to someone else made me feel crazy, which helped me stop the behavior

As far as the dreams, I would have horrible dreams where I’d wake up jealous or angry. You can’t control what you dream, but you can control what you put in your head. The less you spend looking at his stuff, and the more you spend doing other things, the more likely the dreams will go away. Mine did. I’ve had one or two but nothing major. Just remember that whatever he’s doing is none of your business, and worrying about guys who aren’t worrying about you is a waste of your precious life!

]]> By: rascal:)x http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5083/i-really-dont-want-to-start-my-days-depressed-over-dreams-of-my-ex-bf-anymore-any-suggestions/comment-page-1/#comment-34618 rascal:)x Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:11:03 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5083/i-really-dont-want-to-start-my-days-depressed-over-dreams-of-my-ex-bf-anymore-any-suggestions/#comment-34618 I know its not easy but try finding someone elsee :L x I know its not easy but try finding someone elsee :L x

]]> By: Tamart http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5083/i-really-dont-want-to-start-my-days-depressed-over-dreams-of-my-ex-bf-anymore-any-suggestions/comment-page-1/#comment-34619 Tamart Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:11:03 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5083/i-really-dont-want-to-start-my-days-depressed-over-dreams-of-my-ex-bf-anymore-any-suggestions/#comment-34619 Love is lovelier the second time around Love is lovelier the second time around

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