Hello everyone. I am hoping for some help on this issue.

I met my ex girlfriend almost two years ago and it started off great. We hung out every weekend, and after a month, we decided to consider ourselves a couple. I was divorced for over a year before I met her but her ex-boyfriend had just broken up with her two months prior to us meeting.

Things started off great for the first few months. She is very outgoing, smart, has a great sense of humor, and the sex was amazing. After the first few months it started to go downhill. One time we went out to a club and she told me this guy was trying to get her number. I thought she was lying because she thought it was cute to tell little fibs. Later I saw the dude try to dance with her and she didn’t do anything about it until I walked up. Also a few weeks later we went to my friends wedding and I was told afterwards by alot of people that I should leave her alone because she was being overly flirtatious and that I would get hurt. I also noticed that she could not control her alcohol intake. She would get completely obliterated and would act out of character. Of course I didn’t see any of this prior to me falling in love with her.

We stuck it out for a while and noticed that the arguments started to get more intense and she started saying hurtful things on purpose. The hurtful comments happened more and more to the point where I would get angry and call her names and even got soo angry that I would hit my steering wheel. One day we went out and she got soo mad at me and she cheated on me to get back at me. She said she felp pressured by her "step sister" because I treated her like crap. After about a month break we started dating again and it started all over again. I got blamed for her cheating on me. The night she told me what happened we were both drunk and she started to get physical with my by hitting and kicking me. I never thought I would do it but I ended up hitting her back in the arm. It got so bad that a month later she did it again but I ended up going to jail. By court order I was not to contact her but she contacted me. We started seeing eachother again and everything was fine for a few months and then it started to go downhill again. Two months ago we went out and she got physical with me again. I held her back and she somehow got a huge cut on her arm. A month ago we went out and got into it bad. She hit me so hard that I had a bloody swolen lip and had huge scratches on my face. We saw eachother a week later and both decided that we should end things.

A few weeks ago she texted me saying that she was going on a date. I asked her to tell me if she would start dating again. I thought she was joking until I walked in a bar and saw her there with another guy. I was crushed. I begged her the next day to see me and she refused. For a few days I couldn’t sleep, eat, and had not motivation to do anything. I broke off all communication for 10 days, and just today, I sent her a text asking how she was doing because one of her friends from high school passed away. She did not text me back.

I know I should just leave her alone but it’s easier said than done. It’s apparent that she is not mentally stable but I love this girl more than I ever loved another girl. I want her back more than anything.

My question is…What is the best course of action for me to take to get her back? I did the no contact for 10 days and was starting to find myself again. I wasn’t angry with her anymore and felt comfortable sending her a text. Should I text her again in a few days? Should I call her? I know that we both still have feelings for eachother and I want nothing more than to get her back even though most who read this will tell me I am crazy. Any suggestions will be helpful.


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