living with boyfriend, want ex husband back?
i divorced my husband 10 mos ago, had a boyfriend while married, just moved out of husbands house, currently renting a home with boyfriend not too far from ex’s place…i miss my ex and want my broken family mended (my ex and I have a child together). my current boyfriend i feel is not what i really wanted. regret NOT going to counseling to repair my marriage.
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How does the ex feel about this?
Wow….cheated on your husband and broke up your family to be with someone else. Now he’s not what you thought he was going to be so now you want to go back after 10 months. You sound like a mess!!
My advise: i would tell your ex how you feel and get counseling even if he does not want you back because you need help. Also if he does want you back, I wouldn’t rush back into anything…..you have a lot going on upstairs!
How about getting your own place…..going to counseling to figure out what you really want and why.
While in counseling stop seeing both men……as I’m sure your counseling will strongly suggest.
You’re not playing ping-pong.
Well you sound to be a ‘doer’…you did the walk out and you did the boyfriend on the side…you did the live in boyfriend.
So now think of what you have to DO to fix this. I’d say start talking with the ex about does he have any interest in repairing marriage. Then talk about what you have to do to get his trust and affection back.
BC
wow …. how about leaving these guys alone !!! you don’t deserve to be with anybody…
As you are not married to this boy friend and as you have a child with your ex husband, it is best to marry him again for the future or your life and also for your child’s future. Leave this boy friend. But first confirm and try to solve the problems due to which you divorced him. If the same problem is still there then you will again try to divorce him. So try to solve all the problems and get him married again. This will be the best solution.
Too bad. You don’t get do-overs in life.