How do I get my girlfriend to love me again?
I am 18 years old and I have been with this girl for 4 years. We did everything together during highschool. We told eachother that we love eachother after 3 months and have been ever since. But something happend. I lied to her about me trying pot and i have been truthful ever since and i have never cheated on her or anything. We had planned on moving together in an apartment together while going to college, which were doing right now. 1 week after we moved in she said that she wants to leave cuz i got mad at her for telling her mom that i broke her computer and i was only mad cuz i was like is it really necessary to tell your mom everything? Then we decided that we arent right for eachother. Basically what happend was that i changed into someone that i am not and she fell out of love with the new changed me.I am trying to show her that the person she fell out of love with wasnt the real me.I think she has a friend that is coaxing her to forget me and move on. that friend doesnt know me
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be yourself and if it isn’t good enough, move on
sit with her and talk… if she values u she wil understand it else let her be…coz u cant trust her if she can fall for what her friend says
romance her…a girl likes it when a guy is sensitive….. a dozen roses work 2
If its meant to be then this will all blow over. Give her her space she needs time to think. When a women feels a something for a person nothing can stand in are way not even a to involved friend.
i think you should just be honest with her about how you feel. people do change over the course of time. its inevitable. however, maybe your girlfriend would benefit from hearing that although you might have changed and grown up, you’re still just as into her as before. you’re excited to deal with these new challenges and you know you two make a good match. she may need some time to sort things out, especially with her friend telling her to move on. i know this is hard to hear, but whatever is meant to be WILL be.. no matter what. just hang in there. but definitely try to talk to her in the meantime.. maybe you can resolve your newfound differences.
Be the person you want to be and if she ends up getting attracted to you again, then great. If not, someone else will come along.
I don’t know how to get her back but I will say this…Move on and take care of you. If it’s meant to be it will be. I don’t think that you should preoccupy yourself with her so much. I am not saying jump on the next girl right away but give her a chance to miss you. Maybe things will work out.
its hard moving in with your partner. you dont no what someone is really like til you live with them. she seen a side to you that she would have never seen before because you and her are always on your best behaviour when your only dating.but now your living together you let your behaviour slip and you both start taking each other more for granted
you sound really confused. I think you need to know who you are and what you really want before getting involved in a serious relationship. It may have been important to her to share everything with her mom you must accept her for who she is. If you EVER try to change some one it wont work
show her that you are who you say you are. invite her over and cook har a nice romantic dinner or somthing. try to get her to see that it was just a laps in judgement.
i guess what i can tell you is if she really loves you with all her heart and you love her too then there is really nothing to worry about and it will work out cause yall where meant to be together after 4 years. and if yall are breaking up for little things like that then yall got some problems or issues that yall need to work out