How do I help recover someone from a broken heart?
Two of my friends have been dating for more than two years now. They are 20. There is this guy who came along and basically made the girl fall in love with him. The guy is 25 and I don’t know exactly why, let her guard down and let him in. She loves him more at this point, and the guy loves her a lot too, but her bf pointed out that acting like this would get her no where in life if she doesn’t know how to stay committed. So she is going to stay with him until the end of the year to see if he can revive her feelings for him…if not, she will most likely go to the guy since he will most likely be waiting for her.
I was just wondering..both sides are really hurt..I mean I kinda feel the current bf was wronged in this since i believe relationships are about commitment. However, I’m more of a friend to the girl…how can I help her recover from such a fall?
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She has to go with her feelings. If she does not think that her current boyfriend is right for her anymore, then she should move on and save a lot more hurt, instead of staying with him just to not hurt his feelings. It will make the both of them miserable. They are both very young, and in my experience, you shouldn’t be in a serious, committed relationship until age 25, when you have been out on your own and you understand the type of person you are or the type of person you want ot be. Believe it or not, in most cases it is not the same as you thought when you were 20.
I suggest she goes with her gut instinct, and not to stay with her current boyfriend if she doesn’t think that he is right for her. Might as well end it now so that the hurt can start healing on all sides.