How do I get him back faster?
Me and my x of 2 years broke up… and he keeps talking to me which isint helping us get over eachother, and he keeps talkin about IF we get back together, and taking me out to dinner and stuff like that. I really do miss him alot, and I do want him back, what could possibly speed up the process a little faster, cause I miss him so much more everyday.help..
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Hi Rebecca
I believe that it is possible to be successful in getting him back. People break up and make up all the time. But, it does take work and thought. It is so important to think about why you broke up and why you want to get back together again. You need to ensure that it you want him back for the right reasons.
Always remember that it is human nature to want what we can’t have, so a place to start is to make yourself attractive to him again. You might do this by:-
1. Showing him that you are happy and confident and getting on with your life. Do not appear desperate or miserable, this is not attractive. You want to show him what he’s missing!
2. Make an effort to look good. Show him what a positive, attractive, confident person you are. It will make you feel good about yourself as well.
3. Keep your emotions under control and do not text, email or phone him all the time telling him how much you miss him. It is not attractive to grovel or beg. Men prefer to be the pursuers.
4. However, keeping communication open is very important, so your meals out together are great, but keep it casual and do not get into arguments about past issues.
5. Start making a plan of how you are going to get him back. This may not be easy, but you will have to resolve the issues that caused the problems you were having in your relationship.
Rebecca, I hope that helps.