Girlfriend wants to break up, any advice to fix it?
of course, she pulls the "I just wanna be friends" type of deal and I still do not understand why women insist on that.
Well we had a a minor fight, and the next day she said she just wanted to be friends adding how she doesn’t have those types of feelings for me.
I know it seems strange but I know that she does have feelings for me..because of all the times we shared and the arguments and fight we got through together, she is my best friend. I asked if something else was the matter, like maybe she thought I cheated on her, lied to her, did something to demean her but there was nothing of the sort except for stress from her parents due to the fact that they do not really want us dating..
and she’s stressed with her finals and I don’t want her to create more unnecessary stress for herself with this conflict. If it truly is not right for us to be together, then I’m willing to accept that, but this spontaneous change of heart is so strange to me, and it doesn’t feel like her and I don’t want her to break my heart, and then realize she never wanted to and wants to get back with me again because I would not…I thought I was being naive saying that what she was doing wasn’t her. She’s shown me so much love and care and she tells me things that are obviously due to love and I try to show her that but she can’t understand it. I tried to be confident about it, telling her that I know we can overcome this lil dilemma and this was just a silly little thing
but I’m not sure what to do, or how I should approach this..the thought of her leaving is starting to take its toll on me…and that confidence is going away..I really love her
if you guys have any advice as to what to do please let me know.
thanks for all your advice. I really like her so I really wanna make this work
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well the thing is if it makes you happy to be with her and wanna go back with her then do it, who the hell cares. it makes you happy trying to get back with her then do it. i think she found something she doesn’t like about you. or she is seeing someone else usually its these answers. she is pushing you away. and if friends is not what you want then what the hell are you doing still being friends with her. do what makes you happy, stop trying to make others happy when you aren’t happy. so if you don’t want to be friends but more then that tell her that you miss being with her and you want to be together again, but if she doesn’t want it then you have your answer. girls feel bad for guys a lot of time, make her feel sorry for you and she’ll have to convince herself to be with you. make her realize that she needs you in her life.
Let her go. She is being polite by just saying she only wants to be friends. She is not telling you the real reason. Either she is no longer attracted to you or she has met someone who she desires more. Just move on.
I’d just let her go…
she doesn’t love you anymore move on
Talk to her about it….
If she had been in love with you , there’s is something that she is upset about.
Sort it out. She wil try to resist your questions but try and hear her without objecting or intervening in any way.
It she cries, give her a hug.