How to get him back fast?
My boyfriend and I broke up last week…and like last week he hated me and didnt even want to talk to me. But lately we’ve been talking the way we used to when we first started dating. He says that it hurts him when we fight and he keeps asking if any guys have asked me out yet. He does keep saying too that we wont get back together…but he’s said that in the past.
How can I get him back quickly? I love him and miss him alot.
ok let me clear this up lol
We got into an argument because one of my friends called his work and asked him to call me. He got pissed cuz I got people "involved" but thats how us girls are…when theres trouble in paradise we rely on our girls to help us out right?
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Guys like to be with girls who don’t need them. Men love a challenge and love to get what they think they can’t. You are making it too easy for him. Think about this, if you like these 2 guys and one of them casually flirts with you but never makes a move and the other guy is up your but every minute of every day who would you be with? Also, if you were the one who broke up with him (I know you aren’t) and he kept calling you constantly and even had his friends call you at work, wouldn’t you think he was pathetic? I know I would. Guys like to be with girls who have a full life, a life completely independent from him. If you love him and want him back, you need to change RIGHT NOW! Stop acting like you care so much, even though I know you are just being honest to your feelings. Men don’t like women who are needy and clingy, it is a HUGE turn-off. Also, NO its not ok to have your friends calling him for you. That makes you look so desperate. I know you are young and don’t know how men operate, but I am 33 and have been there like 50 times. I am always the one in control in my relationships. You know what gives you control in your relationships? When you are the one who cares less. You care less than he does about the relationship and being together. You care less about being alone, you aren’t scared to not have a boyfriend. Guys LOVE confident women who DONT need them. I haven’t seen my boyfriend in 2 months and he still sits home every night and calls me all the time! He knows I don’t need him, so he kisses my but big time! You need to stop acting needy. Miss some of his calls, ignore some texts…..be prepared with an excuse, like "oh I didn’t get that message, my service must be down." Also when he does want to see you, and he will, if you follow my advice, don’t be available! That’s right, be busy, have plans. Ok, I know what you’re thinking…."yeah right, and blow my chance to be with him and get back together, no way." But if you make plans with him as soon as he asks and you guys hang out, and you act all loving as usual….you will totally turn things back to the way they were! You want to instill a sense of fear in him, fear that you met someone else, fear that you don’t like him anymore, fear that you are moving on. Don’t give him too much information about anything you do. Treat him like an annoying dork at school who won’t leave you alone, if you do that, he will be sure to not leave you alone! I can tell from him asking you about other men that you still have a chance. I would be so casual when he asks that. I would say something like "well, what do you consider asking me out to be?" Scare him and then quickly say you have to go so he can wonder. Don’t be afraid to disappear, less is more here! Trust me, I know what I am talking about. Men are slimy and only want what is a challenge…do you see now why having your friend call was a bad move? Don’t do that again. Don’t just play hard to get, BE hard to get. It will all workout in the end, let me know what happens!
Try to see him thru the same eyes you had when u 1st met him
forget about him your loss
tell him that you love him and miss him and ask him if he would like to give it one more chance.. if not then you need to let him go to protect yourself from getting hurt
the best solution is to be honest with him and yourself let him know everything
If it is met for ya’ll to be together then it will happen. If not u will have a best friend.
Why bother? You don’t have a marriage or kids or a home, you have a boyfriend. Think about it. Go out and date other people and stop being so insecure. There is a whole world out there. I don’t believe in "boyfriends" and "girlfriends" I believe young people should date until they have a college degree and a good career. Then they can think about getting all serious over someone. Be young and test the waters.
Be brave and tell him that you still love him even if he insist that you wont get back together. Make him see that you still love him ‘coz for sure he’s still in love with you. Make him fall for you all over again. As the saying goes "Love is sweeter the second time around"
Good Luck