whats else can i do to make my wife fall head over heals for me again?
I like to play computer games online like counter strike 1.6 and left4dead, it has had its toll on my marriage and its rocky now.My wife says that shes not in love with me but she still loves me.I just gave my computer away to show this time i was serious and have started to do the little things again like run her a warm bath at night when she got home from work it has only been 3 days since the last falling out but the last 2 days whith her have been great and i hope getting rid of it will help show her that will she come back around or is it to late? i acted like a child and got what i deserverd,but i can say she is the best person that i have ever known. we still talk and are going to church on sunday together which we havent done in a long time .just this time it seems we are on the edge.am i doing the right things know?what else can i do besides rem. the little things?
well sorry everyone i thought i was on the right track but i guess i wasnt she said that she was just pertending and that it aggervatied her to be here so we are going our seprate ways
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It seems you are making good changes. Keep up the good work, and she may fall in love with you again.
Buy her a trampoline!
You certainly can’t make someone love you. All you can do is what you have been doing. Show her that you are truly serious about changing. She’s gonna be leary of your seriousness for awhile, so just hang in there until she can trust you. Sounds like you are on a roll, keep it up. Good Luck!
What you did was a good step in showing her you mean what you say. But she has been feeling this way for some time. It’s not going to be forgotten over night. Keep proving to her that she means a lot to you. Write her little notes, talk about when you first met, get out the wedding video. Try to go back to when it first began, maybe it’ll help her remember how to fall back in love with you again.
Be honest. Let her know you are serious and are going to show her by your actions. It is up to her to either accept you are serious or walk around like a sourpuss convincing herself she is not in love with you anymore. How about taking her on a trip? How about just sitting next to each other on the couch and talking. How about dinner/happy hour with friends. Just have fun and get out of the rut.
You getting rid of the computer really wasn’t fair to you. Yes you should of cut down on game playing however you deserve to be happy as well. She needs to do some special things for you as well. Watch out dude you do not want to be hen pecked and scared of your wife she will take full advantage of it.
That was thoughful of you to give your computer away.. I think your on the right track. How about giving her little love notes where she least suspects them:) I do that for my honey, i will put a ll note in his car that way in the moring he gets in his car getting ready to leave to work and he finds it:) just lil thing make a difference:)
don’t kiss her ass…..
i recommend being sexy with her. Tell her how sexy she is…. grab her in the kitchen and kiss her deeply.
I must admit, I don’t much about such things. But as a romantic, idealist woman, given up mostly to daydreams about prince charming riding over on his white horse to rescue me, I can say that you shouldn’t try too hard. Just be the kind of man your wife fell in love with in the first place. Just let love take it course. Perhaps I read too many romance novels, but I believe that if it were meant to work out, it will. Just keep believing, and never give up on love. Because I believe that it never truely dies. I wish you and your wife good luck, and a happy marriage from now on.
left4dead really??? I thought the game was a real let down. Great concept but ……. wait a minute. This is not the question is it….. I had this same problem. I would come home and play cod4. My wife was getting mad and she had a good reason. Now I always do the husband and Father thing until the kids in bed and spend a hour or so with her at night. Then I get on xbox and play until I get tired. As for doing the right thing I think if the computer was the problem and getting rid of that then it should be all good. Is that really the problem or just the symbol?
buy the book called "The Love Dare"
it is from the movie Fireproof. It WILL save your marriage if there is the tiniest bit of love left and there obviously is.
you may have doubts, but my husband and I are doing "The Love Dare" right now and it has helped our relationship more than i can ever explain.
look at this site- http://thelovedarebook.com/
I thought you said you gave your computer away?
It really depends on you. Do you think its too late? do you think she couldn’t forgive you? You willl need to work to keep her. Don’t be fake just be real with her you have to want to change otherwise this will be a temporary change and you will end up going back to your old ways.
ur doing the right things mike, invest time in her find out what she likes and do things with her. You guys need to communicate more and let each other know u appreciate each other. Church is a great step get involved i know its changed our relationship. Women love attention we dont like to compete with a tv, or anything like that. Women also need to let men have tiem to themselves to its healthy. Now if u sit there and play games all day it bad ur addicted but if u play occasionally its healthy.
That is too bad that you spent that much time gaming online. Do you feel like you have so much time now? You should definitely keep doing what you’re doing. Always put her first no matter what, and always try to do little things that will make her life easier. You’ll find that both of you will fall more in love and remember what it was like when you first got together.