How do I get him back?
My boyfriend and I were together for a year and 3 months.. and for the most part, we were completely happy, the whole relationship.. To be honest, I was in love with him before we even started dating. So, obviously.. I care alot for him, and I have for a long time now. We spent pretty much every day of the summer together, and we got alot closer over the past 4 or 5 months.. we had one of those relationships that all our friends were jealous of, and everyone wanted to be like us.. just because we were always happy together. Well then, out of nowhere.. he just breaks up with me last Sunday night and says that he doesn’t feel like he’s in love with me anymore. I know it’s not true.. because, when someone loves you, that’s something you know. I think he just needs some time, but this hurts so freaking bad! Can anyone tell me what I can do to get him back faster? I need this guy in my life.. he is my world, and I’ll love him forever! =/
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Here is how I look at this situation. I do not want a relationship with someone who is in doubt about being with me. I want someone who loves me as much as I love him. Also being a christian I believe in praying that God will choose my mate and bring the right person to me. When God brings you that person , he will love you as you love him. Please don’t hang on to someone who does not love you. The saying goes," let go and if it is love, it will return".
Darlene
If he broke up with you just like that, then he was cold and hurtful and not the person for you anyways… You don’t need someone in your life… its a want not a need, it sounds like you are a little scared to be alone… take it one day at a time and you will be fine…
If he doesn’t want to be with you, oh well. Get over it. Get a new boyfriend.
You can’t make someone love you. Wait…give him some time and if he loves you he’ll find his way back. Don’t push him because he will push away even more! Have you ever heard that saying…"If you love somethhing let it go and if its yours it will come back to you"? Thats true…if he really loves you, he’ll start missing you…especially if he feels you’ve moved on to someone else…..I would give him something to think about. Start going out with other guys and see if that doesn’t open his eyes. You may find out that he wasn’t so much your world after all!
omg i acctually cried lol same thing happend to me and this guy but we broked up few months asgo like 4 or 5 and i still talk to him and i have friends that live rite next to him he have lil brothers so the people go to his house and sometimes when there is a lot of people in the house and than they all sit down at night and watch a movie he go to his room and lay on the bed and one of the guys come and they start talkin and the guy told mii a lot wut he says and he pretty much talk bout mii a lot and think of mii a lot ii miss him so much thoo i dint talk to him 4long but i dont want him to lose intrest in mi =’[ well try to talk to him n tell him how u feel it should helpp if it doesnt like keep connection with him so he wont lose the intrest in u well gud luck and be strong dont let him think ur despret but every girl is despret after a guy she love leav her
oh dear, and you may just love him forever but without him.
The best way to get him back is to go on and act natural. Be outgoing and funny, talk to other guys. Don’t et on that it bothers you. Treat him as a friend you’ll aways have. He’ll see the unny side of you and maybe he’ll come around and realize what he’s given up.
But there is no guarantee, we can’t make someone love us. If we could there wouldn’t be so many divorces.
Not to sound harsh, but it sounds as though you’re quite young.
Be thankful for the time you spent together and let him go. There isn’t anything you can do to make someone love you, or admit that they love you. The healthy thing to do is to accept that things are over.
Who knows what tomorrow brings? You don’t know if there is someone out there who would be better for you. If you spend all of your time looking back, you won’t see what’s ahead of you.
You could in a year or so look back and think….. ‘What was I thinking?’
Give yourself some limited time to miss him, to feel the pain and to heal.
Then pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move forward. It’s the only direction in which you will find happiness.
Best of luck
No one can ever TRULY know what another person feels. So, if he says that he no longer feels that he’s in love with you, then it is most likely true. If you are in love with someone, you don’t break up with them.
It sounds like to me, he just doesn’t feel the same way about you. It may not be anything you’ve done, but feelings change, sometimes for no reason, sadly.
As for what can you do to get him back…nothing. All of the begging, pleading, crying, threatening, stalking, hurting, praying, what have you, will not get him back if he doesn’t want to come back. However, since he left, then he doesn’t want to be with you. I know that hurts to hear it, and even more to accept it, but you have to.
You say this guy is your life and world. That is not good. You and your own happiness and self respect should be your life and your world. Right now you have neither because you abdicated it to someone else, someone else who is gone from you. Take back your life and your world.
Move forward with yourself, because I guarantee, he’s moving on *from* you, and not back *towards* you.
its just a guy. he avbiously lost interest.
let it go, and next time, make it interesting…
there are 4 billion guys in the world, so go out searching!!!!