how do i get my girlfriend to love me again?
i have been with my girlfriend for 2 year we lived together then we moved home till we found someware else she treats me like a dog but i cant live without her the last time we broke up i tried to kill myself she is the only person that i can tell i love since my dad died a couple of days before my 12 birthday i had a bad background and this was the first time i ever felt safe without her it all seems pointless, my friends all tell me i should have left her the first time she hit me but i want her back so much i wait for hours for her to tell me she will talk to me what can i do
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Please do not go back to her
I know you can find someone real out there olove you, but that’s not her.
You seem like you’re a little needy at times. She probably doesn’t like this. I don’t think you should try to stay with her. There are tons of situations where women beat their husbands and they take it. I think you need to be with someone who understands and respects your needs. It may be hard to break up with her but I think even you know that seems to be the best thing to do in an abusive situation.
You DO NOT deserve to be treated like that. I can understand that you love her. Or loved her. Now it’s just that you feel safe with her and you are scared to leave that comfort zone. You would be doing yourself a favor by getting rid of her and finding someone who actually cares about you and treats you with love and respect. You cannot make someone love you, no matter how hard you try.
Desparation is not attractive in men or women… You may believe that you love her, but you deserve better than that, if she hits you and no woman is worth trying to commit suicide over…I would not try to get her back. You should take some time just to be by yourself and get over her. Then when you are ready slowly get back into the dating scene. There are other women out there who you can feel safe and close too, if you would just give them a try.
You can’t make someone love you…it has to come from the inside…it has to come from them…
Dude, you have issues!!! You seriously need to see a therapist…
You are only with her because you do not know any better… You think she is the only one that will ever be with you… Well frankly she is not…
There are plenty of girls out there that will treat you with respect and love you like you never imagined possible…
Trust me, I’ve been there and done that…except for trying to kill myself and being hit…
Let her go… I strongly suggest it… You need to see help…you are not mental stable to be in a relationship… Fight your own battles inside you…then you can have a healthy relationship with someone…
Good luck…
Do some of the things you did or said when you guys first met and remind her of how much you ;love her.
I really hate that you are having problems like this with your girl.
You sound like a really sweet guy and really should move on and find someone that is going to love you without inflicting pain on you.
You are sensitive and clingy. She has taken advantage of the side of you that needs to be loved. And you have mistaken the way she treats you for love. If she loved you she wouldn’t hit you. You need to get out of the relationship, and find someone that will truly show you what love is really like.
I could just hug you right now. I am sorry that you are going through this and hope that you make the decision to get away from her and find real love.