How do you make your ex want you back?
He thinks we’re too different, we talked about it and sorted it out but he still said "no, not right now."
He called 2 days later to see waht ive been doing, and I just said ive been really busy, havent been home at all, just been out clubbing n out with friends, meeting new ppl. Goin out for a drive with a friend right now. He said "oh ur goin with a boy are u?" He said he keeps expecting 2 c my car outside his house, and when I said I was up near his work that day he said "oh why didnt u come in and see me?" I jst said it would be too awkward.
Im going out for drinks in a couple of days with another guy. My ex said he’d call later in the week. Should I tell him about this? Would it make him want me back? If I keep acting busy and social will it make him want me back? Or does it sound like he already does? He hates people hating him so mayb hes just making sure I dont hate him? How do I make him want me back?
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Oh for the love of Jesus. Here we go with the ‘tried and tested’ routine again. Dump him. Get a new man. Unless you want misery.
Give up the backdoor he will be back for a while anyway.
Do you want him back if you’re going out with other guys? Take the break from him now. Enjoy yourself. You don’t have to tell him you’re going to get drinks with another guy. He’s your ex not your BF. Have fun being young and when you’re done with it and you still have the feelings of wanting your ex back, then talk it over with him. Hope everything works out for you!
You can’t make anyone take you back. And to be honest, if this is the way he treats you, is he worth having back anyway?
It sounds to me as if he doesn’t want you, but doesn’t want anyone else to want you either. Go out with the other guy, have a great time. If you tell your ex, fine, but him being jealous is not a good enough reason to get back together.
why would you want him back…he doesnt want to be with you…he wants to controll you…hes an idiot…find yourself a real man who will stand beside you and not play stupid kid games with you…
Give him some space and you take take the time to think about it too. Not sure if you’ve heard the saying "If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you, it was always yours. If not, it wasn’t meant to be".
You can’t make someone who doesn’t want you, want you. He is making a feeble attempt at moving on by keeping you dangling and you are taking the bait. It is no longer his business if you are seeing another guy. You sound very young. Move on or else this will be a childish little game that the two of you play as long as you will let him.
There’s a reason that this didn’t work in the first place. Be friendly, but don’t pretend you’re busy to make him jealous. You were part of his life and he wants to keep you there, but in a different capacity… but whether you stay in the box he’s given you is up to you. My ex and I hooked back up after five years apart and have been together for six years now. If he’s the right one for you, it’ll happen… but give it time. And don’t stop living your life. Otherwise you miss out on the things that will help make you who you will become.
move on… if he wants you back… he Will ask regardless of what u do/ don’t….
u cannot Make sum1 do anything
move onnnnn…. otherwise endless agony/ misery… ennnndlessss!
Why would you want him back? He’s your ex.!!! Are you so desperate and insecure that you cant find someone new!!!!
why should I . Do I look so ugly that I cannot manage a new guy and have to weep for the wretched ex?
Well it seems to me that he already wants you back. The fact that he wants to know if you are going out with another guy shows interest. He is probably just trying to hide the fact that he wants you back. In my personal experience I have learned that depending on how close you 2 were, no man wants to see his ex with someone else. He wants you to come crawling back to him. But girl I say, MAKE HIM SWEAT!!!!! Tell him you are going out and let him assume it is with a guy even if it is not. Don’t answer when he calls and then wait like an hour and call him back with a "Did you call me? I was talking to somebody or I was busy sorry, but what’s up". Girl I am telling you from my personal experience grown men have come crying back. They do not want another man having your time. A-K-A their time.
I was in the same boat and I am still sailing! ; – )