Help everyone!! Did he use me to get over his girlfriend?
I have a facebook page and a younger man requested a friendship I accepted in july of 2009 and we didn’t talk until nov 2009 he was toured to Afghanistan and i would offer prayer and advice to him in Jan 2010 he professed my love to me and I to him and life goes on. today, i was visiting one of his pages and he posted a poem asking some woman to come back home to him. and his mom commented and said that his poem was beautiful and added " I told you about the love of your life. I was floored. Is he asking his ex-girlfriend to come back to him? Did he use me to heal from his ex and only to find that he’s still in love with her, and yes, She has posted on facebook that she still carries him in her heart after him reading her comment he says, lol…Should I step back and allow their relationship to work even after we both have spoken of our love for each other Was it just a poem? Should I ask about the poem? Should I wait to see what happens? i really could use everyone’s opinion. Thanks everyone
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It sounds like he used you. Now before you get upset think about this. You are a nice empathetic woman, men like him gravitate to women like you because you are strong and decent. You have no choice but to step back, if only for your pride and respectability. Think twice before you offer your strength and decency to another man. Look for someone who is like you, with your values, he’s out there, just don’t waste yourself on men who don’t deserve you.
ask about the poem. be straight up about it, but dont sound mad.