Does he really want me back?
My ex was the one who ended the relationship. But the strange part is, he told me he MIGHT be willing to take me back if I change some of my character.
Ok, how long should I wait before I go back to him? I feel like if I were to return after 2 weeks or so, it might just look like I haven’t really change but want to come back anyway.
Anyway, do you guys also think the dude is for real willing to take me back? I mean, like who breaks up with their fiance and then tells her that one day he wants her back if she realised her flaws and change some habits. I do know that he is back in the social scene meeting new people and all. So am I.
I don’t know what to think anymore. We were each other’s greatest love. Please advice me. Thanks.
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Don’t go back. Anyone who does something like that wanted a reason to play the field and then pull you back when he couldn’t find what he was looking for. Plus, if the two of you were meant to be, you would not have broken up in the first place. Also, unless you are some junkie or participate in criminal behavior, you should not change your character for anyone. If you do "try" to be what he wants you to be and go back, you will end up resenting him. Change your habits because you want to change, but don’t do it for some guy.
well he sort of pulled a jack**s move. i really wouldn’t want to be with him if he wants to change you for what you are. if you want to really want some revenge you should break his heart like how he broke yours.
i would wait longer than 2 weeks. it takes longer than that to change yourself. just do what you have to do to change, and keep him in your life at the same time.
whoa…i can’t believe "he told (you) he MIGHT be willing to take (you) back if I change some of (your) character." !!
i thought love was accepting, even loving a person for exactly who they are!
this man is a control freak situation waiting to happen – if you go back. i wish you wouldn’t.
i wish you would tell him that you decided that you are fine just the way you are.
and that you’ve decided you’d rather be with someone who isn’t so arrogant and superior and loves you for your character.
Ok, honestly I think part of him does still want the relationship with you – otherwise he would have cut all ties & not said he’d be willing…. But, the thing is, it might be that he just wants to control you in a way; make sure you’ll still be there, hanging on, in case he decides he wants to come back.
Its a very cruel thing to leave someone but tell them you MIGHT be willing to take them back if they improve. That’s not what true love is meant to be about. No one should try to make you feel inadequate & that you have to change to keep them. Changing bad habits etc is one thing, but changing your character. No.
You deserve so much better than someone who would ask you to do that – and make it worse by leaving & telling you that if you change you might get lucky & he’ll come back.
I think this is his loss & whether or not he realises it, and I think he will & you’ll find him turning up on your doorstep soon enough. But you deserve to find someone who loves your character, just the way you are & who won’t try to manipulate you into changing. Don’t go back to him, you’re so much better than that. Good luck x