Last year I started to become friends with this guy and we started talking and texting all the time. He’s a year younger than me and we don’t see each other much this semester besides in the hallway sometimes. This november he told me that he liked me me as a lot more than a friend but I apologized, told him I didn’t really see him in that way, and told him that I didn’t want a relationship at the time which was the truth. he was a little disappointed at the time but he thanked me for being honest and it wasn’t even awkward at all after that. After that it seemed like we started to get to know each other even more. We’d talk almost every night and we offered each other advice on everything. He complimented me all the time and he’d out of the blue say "you looked nice today" which i thought was sweet. he was the guy i could go to with anything and i knew he’d have my back, so naturally i started to like him back. i didn’t tell him right away because i didn’t want it to be awkward. at the start of this semester i didn’t talk to him besides texting a little bit because we didn’t have any of the same classes, so we talked less than usual. a few days after the first day of the semester i told him about my feelings, and that i should have realized what a great guy he was back in november. he replied "i kinda have a thing with somebody now." and i was kind of sad but i got over it. i asked him how the chemistry test was the next day and he said "it was ok." which was wierd because we usually had actually meaningful conversations. we didn’t talk the rest of the week and he randomly texted me the next week . we talked for hours that night but the next day when i texted him he seemed bored talking to me. but when he started the converstion we talked forever, and he was back to his funny and sweet self. He told me that it didn’t work out with the other girl but that he didn’t know if he still liked me or not. i said "well a no is better than an ‘idk’ if that’s what you’re thinking" and he said "it’s not a no. it’s an idk." so like three weeks passed and he was either nice and flirty or really awkward whenever i talked to him. i figured he would have made up his mind by then so i asked him if he had, but all he said was "not yet. sorry." so i said "being friends is ten times better than having it awkward between us, i promise i won’t take it to heart if you decide you don’t anymore" and all he said was "yea i know" and we haven’t talked since then. he waved in the hall once but didn’t even say anything to me.
i’m so confused! i miss my friend that i could tell everything to. i don’t want to rush him but i really wish i knew what the answer was, and i feel like it shouldn’t take a month for him to decide. i still don’t want to be annoying and keep texting him but i’m so stressed out about it and i wish i knew if it was worth it to wait for him to decide. what should i do? :/


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