Would you take her back if you were trying to heal your heart but she wants you back now?
alright so here’s the situation.. it’s not long. my ex just recently broke up with her boyfriend. i think she did it because she wants me back. the thing is.. i was trying all this time to get over her ! i mean, i’m halfway there. my heart isn’t whole yet but it found some of its pieces and some of it back together. [time did the healing]
i realized i’m "okay" being without her. it’s not as painful as it was in the beginning. but i’m longing for that feeling called "love". it’s just… i’m scared to go back to her because she might crush and break my heart again. she’s giving me signs that she wants me back and it’s flattering but i don’t know what to do in this situation.. what would you do? take your ex back and fall in love. or just let time mend my heart whole again? remember.. life is short…. that’s the quote that is always playing in my head.
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That is sooo tough. It is risky to take her back yet you may always wonder, "what if" if you don’t. For the reason I stated: always wondering if you would have worked out again: I would try again. Regret can be a monster. Healing from pain is quicker to get over than regret. Yet you risk getting hurt again and starting the whole healing process over again. I would feel her out. See if she is serious. Go very slow and don’t jump in with both feet – just dip your toe in. Definetely play hard to get with her. See what went wrong the first time and work on that. Good luck.