Would you start fresh with your ex girlfriend, given the chance?
The ex gf of over 1.5 years broke up, and after 1 month of the break up, she finds a new boyfriend. It’s been 3 months and she contacts me, asking how I’m "coping" (since the break up) and how we should be friends. I really don’t want to since I’ll hurt me to see her with another guy, and that’s why I’m ignoring her. Would you get back with YOUR ex if given the chance? Do you think she still likes me?
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in your case she has a new man so its best to just let go and she might like u but only as a person… if i had the chance to get back with my ex boyfriend… no i wouldnt just because there was a reason for the break up.. if she hurt u real bad dont bother with her find a better girl who wont break your heart
I’ve tried it and found the same problems, needless to say we broke up again.
nopeeee
I wouldn’t, she’s put on weight since I was with her. She’s not worth going after now.
I wouldn’t get back with my ex, cos she’s a crazy b1tch.
She probably still has feelings for you. She could have broke up with you to see if you’d be hurt..then she would know you really cared about her.
Been in the same situation.
She has feelings for you, but only as a friend…
I would not get back with my ex because she is a jealous, lying player
Depends on why did you guys break up? ANd she went to another guy because she thinks she can get over you by being wit someone else. I’d say get back…but ask again why did u break up with her.
!!!!!!!!!!! HELL NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!
It depends on if you still have feelings for her. Usually when a girl does that she isn’t really feeling the guy that she is with or he is either brushing her off(being indecisive as to what he wants to do) So with being friends with you she is using you as the safety net. If it hurts for you to see her with someone else, ask her why do you want to be friends? I’m cool. She will then drop the indecisive guy and come running back to you.
All my ex’s suck. I don’t give them the time of day.
If she’s writing you messages like that she either:
1) Misses you
2) Made up a boyfriend
3) Isn’t happy with her boyfriend
4) Is mean and wants to rub her relationship in your face.
I’d say blow her off. You have to make yourself happy, if seeing her with someone new will hurt you, don’t put yourself through it. Either tell her you’re fine but you dont want to be friends, or completely ignore her.
she seems like she still likes you, yes. I personally have gotten back with a few ex’s and things ended again. it always starts out like things will be better but then ends the same way.
hope it helps,
faith (:
It’s always hard after a break up, for both people in the relationship. It’s obvious that she began a relationship with this other guy in a time of hardship and confusion. I dating a guy for two years and a couple months after the break-up, I began a relationship while I was still a complete wreck. I would take my ex back in a heartbeat because I will never love anyone as much as my ex. Of course she still loves you! She doesn’t just forget about you overnight, and she has to be thinking about you if she wants you back in her life. Win her back! If you don’t, you mind end up always regretting it. Good luck & follow your heart.
hmm, I’ve never had a serious relationship before but I don’t think you should do it if it makes you feel bad.
I mean, one month and she has a bf already? well ok, I guess some people get over others quickly.
i would suggest that u take time and think this over and use your head not your heart. Love can make u do stupid things. So can the fear of being alone. Just remember that this person is an ex for a reason. Good luck!
i would say no; the likely hood of the same problems arriving or her leaving you again — is probably going to happen.
I don’t have an ex girlfriend
Hey holio,
Man, this is a tough one for anybody of any age.
Would you start fresh with your ex girlfriend,
* Without any information you already have the information you need….She ain’t here in your life today. I think that might be a real big clue for you, me or any of us.
…given the chance?
* Think about it. She’s not even here with you right now to give you that chance. "If" you didn’t deserve this how does that make you feel?
The ex gf of over 1.5 years broke up,
* Whoa! That tells a lot about you and your commitment to her as loyalty is rare and almost unheard of.
and after 1 month of the break up, she finds a new boyfriend.
* Okay, that should tell you something. She’s in a hurry and it doesn’t include you (aka; Also Know As; …a no brainer).
* Man this is not good for you and I’m sorry as you certainly deserve better. Ummmh, the word respect comes to mind.
It’s been 3 months and she contacts me, asking how I’m "coping"
* She might be lying to you right now because she may not be any longer with the new dude and is rethinking about you. Just wait and see as you really don’t know about these things; and the time it will take is in your favor no matter what happens.
(since the break up) and how we should be friends.
* "If" she is not with you now or was not with you in person at your place or hers and were not holding hands as she asked that question then …who hand was she holding? …Clue, it wasn’t yours, unless you really know the truth of it all.
I really don’t want to since I’ll hurt me to see her with another guy,
* Bingo! Keep truck’n. If she is serious she will be back with you in less than 12 to 72 hours max.; as a rule in these matters; give or take a little or a lot and it is you who will decide the little or a lot depending on your tolerance level. I sense you are very tolerant.
and that’s why I’m ignoring her.
* Great, you have a great tolerance level as ignoring is self imposed
waiting on your part.
* You don’t mention your love for her or her for you unless you are substituting liking each other in the 1.5 years of being just friends; just boy and girlfriend. The good news is that liking each other "first" come before your true love for each other as a rule.
* In this case I would hope she’s waiting for you to forgive her.
* She doesn’t have to ask you for forgiveness because you are going to give it to her anyway. For it is you who asks "Do you think she still likes me. She will know she is accepted back seeing your silent, kind and true spirit about her and without asking questions of her as it is a guarantee of her running off …again …forever.
Would you get back with YOUR ex if given the chance?
* No, if she has been intimate with him.
Do you think she still likes me?
* Her asking; how you are coping and how we should be friends may not mean what you want it to mean. So, ask her,"What do you mean by that?" "Are you asking or thinking you want to get back together again or what?
*If you can’t get good quick and "timely" answers …walk away; and Holio that is easier said than done as no one should ever be alone.
** What ever you decide be kind to her and most of all be kind to yourself for this will provide a safe place for her …when she returns.
If she returns and she decides it is not safe for her you will stand the chance of loosing her. If it is not safe she will leave you.
Bless you my friend,
Paul
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