Comments on: How would you react if your husband talked about his ex-wife like this in front of you (to his son)? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Staysea http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/comment-page-1/#comment-37373 Staysea Mon, 22 Feb 2010 07:58:02 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/#comment-37373 My perception is his Son is finally at an age where your Husband feels comfortable enough to let him know the jest of why things didn't work out with his Mom... and to express that he wishes her (His Ex Wife) no ill will... I don't think he is regretting that the marriage ended, but more so may have felt over the years that his Son had received incorrect information from his Mother as to why the marriage ended. It doesn't seem from what you've said that they have kept in close contact (Your Hubby and his Ex) and to me... again... it seems that your Husband was looking for some understanding from his Son in letting him know there are 2 sides to every story....Not something you can (or should do) when your Children are little... his Son is now an adult and the Father/Son relationship has matured. If nothing else... my guess is his Son probably felt a little more uncomfortable hearing this from his Dad then you did in over-hearing it. My perception is his Son is finally at an age where your Husband feels comfortable enough to let him know the jest of why things didn’t work out with his Mom… and to express that he wishes her (His Ex Wife) no ill will…

I don’t think he is regretting that the marriage ended, but more so may have felt over the years that his Son had received incorrect information from his Mother as to why the marriage ended.

It doesn’t seem from what you’ve said that they have kept in close contact (Your Hubby and his Ex) and to me… again… it seems that your Husband was looking for some understanding from his Son in letting him know there are 2 sides to every story….Not something you can (or should do) when your Children are little… his Son is now an adult and the Father/Son relationship has matured.

If nothing else… my guess is his Son probably felt a little more uncomfortable hearing this from his Dad then you did in over-hearing it.

]]> By: Kellz89 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/comment-page-1/#comment-37374 Kellz89 Mon, 22 Feb 2010 07:58:02 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/#comment-37374 Tell him strait out that you don't appreciate him having conversations with anyone about his past [EX]. Tell him that the past is the past, and he doesn't need to be bringing up old shit anymore. Good luck! Tell him strait out that you don’t appreciate him having conversations with anyone about his past [EX]. Tell him that the past is the past, and he doesn’t need to be bringing up old shit anymore. Good luck!

]]> By: eborock http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/comment-page-1/#comment-37375 eborock Mon, 22 Feb 2010 07:58:02 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/#comment-37375 If he said it within earshot, I imagine he wasn't hiding anything from you. But it is possible that he cares for her without the romantic feelings attached and just wants the best for her. I've seen this happens between divorced couples; they care for each other w/o the sexual feelings. Maybe you should have a heart-to-heart with him... If he said it within earshot, I imagine he wasn’t hiding anything from you. But it is possible that he cares for her without the romantic feelings attached and just wants the best for her. I’ve seen this happens between divorced couples; they care for each other w/o the sexual feelings.

Maybe you should have a heart-to-heart with him…

]]> By: swt_angelina05 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/comment-page-1/#comment-37376 swt_angelina05 Mon, 22 Feb 2010 07:58:02 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/#comment-37376 With the way you have phrased it here, it doesn't seem like he is regretting his choice, just concerned for her. He apparently was with her for a long time and she is the mother of his son, so he will always care about her. What's more, as his current wife you might try to feel relieved that he doesn't feel nothing towards her, it shows that even after a divorce he still cares about what happens to her - which means that he is loyal and not cold. It is somewhat awkward that he was talking to his son about sex with his mother, but the son is an adult so I guess that's okay... Anyway, he chose to end that relationship and no matter how much he might care or worry about her, he made that decision and chose you, so try not to worry. With the way you have phrased it here, it doesn’t seem like he is regretting his choice, just concerned for her. He apparently was with her for a long time and she is the mother of his son, so he will always care about her. What’s more, as his current wife you might try to feel relieved that he doesn’t feel nothing towards her, it shows that even after a divorce he still cares about what happens to her – which means that he is loyal and not cold. It is somewhat awkward that he was talking to his son about sex with his mother, but the son is an adult so I guess that’s okay… Anyway, he chose to end that relationship and no matter how much he might care or worry about her, he made that decision and chose you, so try not to worry.

]]> By: tesla_morris http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/comment-page-1/#comment-37377 tesla_morris Mon, 22 Feb 2010 07:58:02 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5408/how-would-you-react-if-your-husband-talked-about-his-ex-wife-like-this-in-front-of-you-to-his-son/#comment-37377 He never said he regretted leaving his ex...or asked for info on her. You are being jealous and paranoid. She exists, they were married, why wouldn't he want her to find somebody? He found you, right? You are looking for something that was not there. He never said he regretted leaving his ex…or asked for info on her. You are being jealous and paranoid. She exists, they were married, why wouldn’t he want her to find somebody? He found you, right? You are looking for something that was not there.

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