How do you get your man back?
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year, we knew each other for 4 years. We was going to get married this, but i changed it to next. But anyways 2 saturdays ago he broke up with me. then the next sat. i thought we was good cause we talked and he said he just needed a little space to get over what happen. Now 2 days ago he broked up with me for good. By the way i no that he isn’t into another girl. I just want to know what to do. My family says i should just let it go, but i cant cause he was my first EVERYTHING.
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Let it go.
He was your first, he doesn’t have to be your LAST. It wasn’t meant to be.
Walk away. dont forget the quote, if you love something you have to let it go, if it comes back it means so much more
He obviously wasn’t your first grammar teacher!!
Why did he break up with you, for real? What happened? Did you cheat on him?
Try to get him back if you can, if he has someone else then you have to let it go. Why did he break up with you, did he give you the reason ? You can’t just get out and leave, there has to be a reason.
You have acted immaturely and he may not want to continue with a relationship. I would suggest you go on with you life. Get your education, your quesiton is poorly written, not an accusation, just a fact. We do not always end up with our Firsts. Give him space.
Understand a few things:
1) Fairy tales tell us that we should be virgins, marry another virgin and live happy ever after. Reality is, 97% of people probably DON’T end up being with their ‘first’ forever! Some people find ‘the one’ early in life, MOST of us though have to go through more than one person to find the one for us!
2) There are millions of men in this world. So why be sad over one? It’s doubtful that he is the best guy in the world and even MORE unlikely that he is the best guy for you! If he was such a great guy, he’d still be your boyfriend. Clearly he wasn’t the right match for you to begin with.
3) If you truly love him, understand that for whatever reason he is happier without you. Would you want him to stay with you if he was truly unhappy? If so, that’s SELFISH! Love and being attached are different things. True love is between TWO people who feel the same! If both people don’t feel the same that’s obsession and that won’t make a lasting relationship.
So rather than trying to "get your man back" realize that he DOESN’T WANT YOU BACK! Why do you want to be with someone who isn’t into you 100%? It doesn’t make sense! Meanwhile, while you are feeling sorry for yourself, you are letting your life pass you by. Ever think that maybe there is someone better in the world? Ever think that maybe it just wasn’t meant to be?
My advice is to move on. If you know you are a good person then you know that you can find someone else. You CAN let this go. It may hurt and it may take time but that is normal. You had a life before this guy so take your life BACK! You can’t rely on other people to make you happy. You have to be happy with you first. If you are trying to win back a guy who doesn’t love you, you could be overlooking someone who DOES! Best of luck, I hope this helps!