I am a strong woman and love my bf very much and want to be with him always?
I posted a question about an hour ago related to PCS’ing and marriage. I think some who answered got the wrong point of what I was trying to ask. I am not saying that in five months, I want to just go and marry him. I want there to be a strong bond and love connection between the both of us and it’s not quite there…..and would never expect someone to marry me if it wasn’t there. I was just wondering if people thought it was crazy or not of me to just leave to another state with him and just be his girlfriend and not his wife. I have so many people saying go for it if u believe there is a chance in this being it…..and others saying he should commit first(marriage) so I’m confused as to what to do. Should I just go with my gut and let things flow? We still have five months before he leaves for our relationship to progress and I see it progressing because it has so far….I just am not sure if it’s stupid for me to leave or not. We have both discussed me going with him when he leaves….but I won’t graduate from college for like 3 or 4 months after he leaves. We planned on dating long distance for those 3 or 4 months….at least so far that is what we have talked about….and I’m perfectly content with that….and then me go live with him in another state. I want to be with him and go with him and would go….just being his girlfriend and nothing else, but again….is that smart or stupid? I don’t know.
he never said he didnt want t marry me or me to go with him. he just said he didnt want to get married soon…..and we…us…both…him and i talked about me going with him. if he didnt want that he wouldn’t have mentioned it. I’m not a stalker buddy
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If your relationship is meant to survive, then it will survive whether you two are in the same place or not. Hubby and I dated for 4 years before we married. After 1 1/2 years of dating, he joined the AF. I stayed behind to finish up my university work. We didn’t marry for another 2.5 years after that! During that time we saw each other rarely, but constantly wrote letters and spoke at least once a week. Our relationship and our commitment to each other grew. Now, since we’ve been married, he’s missed about 1/3 of our marriage due to TDY’s, a remote tour, and too many deployments. This year we’ll celebrate 22 years of marriage. And if we could do that prior to cell phones, cheap calling plans, and the internet, think how much easier it is now IF it is meant to be!
This is your last question.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmPYgpouLFjItNRGhql_72bsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100221122802AAiWHwl&show=7#profile-info-dAsJw5h0aa
He said he didn’t want to marry you and didn’t want you to go. What part of that do you not get? You sound like a stage 5 stalker, especially since you are following a man who said he doesn’t want you to follow. I bet this man is just waiting to PCS so he can get away from you.
Oh, I see you deleted your last question that showed he SAID he didnt want to marry you and he didn’t want you to follow. You take a long time to absorb the reality don’t you?
Yea? Then why did you delete the question where you stated he specificlly said those two things? You are a stalker. I hope he PCS quickly.