what do you guys think the odds of people who separate while being married of getting back together are.?
some statistics say 80% of people get back together , even when all hope is lost, my wife called it quits ,said she needed space and time, we have a newborn of 4 month old,no cheating or drugs,alcohol were involved, Just too much time spent together and lot of little arguments here and there. i Know deep down inside she loves me, but she is a very very stubborn girl she is 25 yrs.old im 30 and she has been diagnosed with postpartum depression, she doesnt call or text or email me at all. What do you think the odds are of us getting back together are? ive read books and they all say people are likely to get back together than move on. What do you think? i really have tried it all alread calling ,texting,emailing but she doent respond she is taking Prozac for her PPD. Even though i know she wants to call and work it out, i know she is very stubborn that she prefers to keep it to herself, Please Tell me what i should do or you would do?
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Fab,
Dang, I’m very, very sorry for your heavy troubles. Take a deep breath and do little. You might file a separation to protect you from pregnancies she has while on the road. I’m sure you will do what you can for your child—gotta love ‘em.
Ignoring your pet statistics, I’d say that your long term prognosis is considerably less than 80%. I would place your marriage success at the same level of pulling the pin on a grenade and praying it doesn’t go off. Sheesh. If she requires psychoactive drugs now, just think how she will deal with actually raising a child and being a wife. Sad, man, sad. Don’t get mad, but think. How will she cope with childhood illnesses? What if she has a minor fender-bender accident. Wow. For you, there is only one position to take: Hang in there the best you can. You will have to let her settle her issues, while you stand mutely by her side, or on the other end of a phone actually. Don’t divorce her or at least don’t initiate an action. You are a human not a rat.
There is nothing you can do. When a woman is mad about something, you have to give her space and wait for her to contact you. When you call/text/email her, all your doing is hurting your chances of her missing you. See she’s probably testing the waters, seeing what its like with you not around. But every time you try and contact her, it’s annoying to her. Do yourself a favor and just give her the space she needs, she will call you back eventually with her decision. Without knowing the 2 of you and what the real problem is, I cant say whether or not you’ll get back together. Every couple argues and has little fights here and there, so obviously there has to be something out of the ordinary that makes her feel as though you 2 shouldnt be together. Give it some time and give her space, and when she does contact you, dont sound ultra desperate to hear her answer. Just ask her how she’s doing, and talk about normal stuff, and let her bring up what her decision is.