how to found out if your husbands still in love with his ex wife?
I’ve been through alot with my husband this is the first time i’ve been married.But his exwife likes to control him still like they are married still and we’ve been to court i forgot how many times.We now have a 2 year old together.I really do thank that he still has feelings for her not becuase of the kids but for each other.They got married when they where young and started haveing kid 2 boys. I love the boys with all my heart.But one day i was talking with his youngest and he said that his mother which is my husbands ex-wife.Said that her and her husband of 7 years was going to spilt up.Then after 3 mins told me that his mother never would get back with there daddy which is my husband.When i was telling my husband this he told me that he wouldn’t take her back becuase she’s on drugs and he would make her stop and she wouldn’t stop,and would’nt take are son around her.I told him that it seemed to me he would take her back and he told me i was reading into it to much….What does that mean to you i i’m so confused.And then she called lasnight on his cell but waited untill her husband left for work and the kids where in bed i know it had to do with the kids but she was all talking nice and he didn’t want me to say something to make her mad that’s what he told me.
For the poeple tha judge they really don’t know what i’ve been through at all ok..I’ve put up with his crap for 3 years he has lied and we have a kid together.He has cheated in the past and they do have a history together i can deal with that but that ex wife always tryed to get us split up…
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Regardless of drugs, there is always a chance the exes can get back together . They have an emotional bond, the child, and that is something you accepted when you married him.
you ask him and trust me if he is still in love with her you will know by his response.
You need to have a discussion with the guidance of a marriage counselor.
How about just asking him,if you know him well you can tell if he’s lying
Sounds to me like you are being insecure. Guess what, that’ll ruin your marriage faster than him wanting someone else.
There is nothing that you’ve said that has led me to believe that he’d take her back. Not to mention, you sound a little mental yourself.
"There is always a chance Xs will get back together because they have a bond" WTF is that!?! There is no truth to that statement. I for one would never get back with my X husband, EVER!!!!! The thought makes me want to vomit.
Muster a little self esteem. After you do that, quit worrying about the EX and don’t badger your husband about her. They had a family together and you can’t make that go away. They apparently loved each other once. That doesn’t mean he wants her back or that she wants to control him. It means you walked into a marriage with a man who has family history. He married you and the two of you are one now. Not 3. It’s good that they speak kindly to each other. That means they have the ability to forgive. You may need that from him later.
Why are you talking to his kids about her? That is really inappropriate. This is a discussion you should be having with your HUSBAND, no one else. Stop being so insecure and trying to create drama. He’s married to YOU, not her! That should be enough.