How do I make my ex-boyfriend want me back?
We broke up 2 days ago,because apparently he didn’t like me anymore.I don’t want to go back out with him,I just want him to realize he made a big mistake.I want him to know how it feels to like someone who doesn’t like you back.Hope to heaqr from you soon!
Sorry about that,apparently I didn’t make myself very clear.Im’ not trying to be mean to him or anything even remotely close to that.I just want to make him think about why we broke up,and why he just stopped liking me…..And if you aren’t going to give me a real answer,then don’t answer at all.
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I’m sorry for your heartache. I’m sure you will bounce back soon, and find someone better.
Your ex-boyfriend hurt you. Why? For some mixture of 2 reasons: (1) your relationship with him was of some value, and now that it is gone, you have experienced loss, and (2) his rejection of you is an attack on you, a devaluing of who you are. So your response is to want to hurt him in return.
This is a bad idea.
His pain will not make yours feel better. You don’t want a restored relationship, so that loss will not be recovered. His rejection of you will not elevate your self-worth, except by comparison to his. If he learns to want you and cannot be wanted back, then his self-worth will be attacked, and yours can only seem better inasmuch as you compare it to his. Since he is your ex-boyfriend, that relationship is gone, and you will be spending less and less time with him, so that comparison is of no gain to you.
A better response would be for you to realize that he did NOT make a big mistake, but he did you a favor, and that you are far better off without him. If he does not appreciate you for who you are, then good riddance! Sure, that will be something your heart takes awhile to understand, but in time it will be very true.
Hurting people who hurt you is something that develops bad habits in relationships, and will damage your quality of life. If you take revenge on your ex-boyfriend, then you will be a little more guarded in your next relationship, which will make it harder for that relationship to succeed. And if that relationship fails, you’ll be tempted to hurt the next boyfriend, too. This becomes a cycle of pain for you and those around you.
I say you’d do well to feel the hurt, for a little while. Everybody does. Grieve the loss. Then some knight in shining armor is going to sweep you off your glass slippers, and when he does, you’ll be ready to invest your whole heart in this new, glorious relationship. Because when that right guy comes around, you’ll want to be ready for it, and enjoy every minute!
Try to seduce him (physically).
You can’t. If he doesn’t like you anymore that’s that. Move on now.
What you’re trying to do is vindictive and mean. You need to reanalyze your life and move on.
honey, that boat has sailed
the best thing to do is to ignore him and move on
the more you try to do what ur doing, the more he is going to think he likes you
The best way is to be happy and not care. If you appear not to care he will be curious as to why.
go out with another guy and make out with him when you see him
The sad reality is you can’t make someone want you. I know it hurts, but move on and maybe you’ll find someone who will appreciate you. Good Luck!
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flirt with other guys, but not obnoxiously and slutty flirting. just be REAAAAALLY friendly
ahaha
uuhm, wear really nice clothes around him, avoid eye contact with him.
do things he loved about you. like if he loved your smile, smile ALLL the time around him.
stuff like that
make him jealous i no it may seem nasty but u have to show him what he is missing
good luck sugar
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Make him jealous. Or go with one of his friends.
You can’t make someone want you. The best you can do is try to show the person exactly what you have to offer and what they are missing by not being with you. So just be yourself and don’t let the situation get you down. I’m sure you are a beautiful person and letting that shine will allow someone that does appreciate you to see it…if the ex sees it too, good for you.
I’m sorry, but you seem to have contradict your own question. You ask us how to get him back, yet proceed to say you don’t ACTUALLY want him back? How can I help if you are not clear in what you want? There is not point pursuing someone who does not like you any more, it shouldn’t be forced, otherwise the relationship itself is flawed.
You can not do anything. I know that is not the answer you are looking for, but it is the truth. You like many other people who have breakups will have to suffer the hurt for a while, but time will heal that and you will probably meet someone else that is better then man who just put you down.
Flirt with his best friends, make him jealous, make him beg for you back.
definitely DO NOT make him jealous!
he doesnt like you? that means there was something in you that he liked before…and now its gone probably. maybe it was how you used to flirt with him? most girls stop flirting cuz they know that the guy is theirs….so they just let it loose, DONT let the romance die. But if thats not the issue….then its up to you to find out what exactly he dislikes about you now. Dont change yourself….be yourself, but if its something you did to him try and fix your mistake. It feels bad….but god only puts us in situations he knows we can handle and will make us stronger in the future….also if my advice doesnt help just try going to wikihow and typing in "how to get your ex to like you" or something like that. Hope I helped!
As for realizing he’s made the mistake, it’s worse on him if he doesn’t.
But as for knowing how it feels like to like someone who doesn’t like you back, it’s a common feeling and odds are he already knows.
Revenge doesn’t do anyone good, it only makes you waste more time on someone who didn’t want to be in a relationship with you. That doesn’t make you more attractive, just spiteful.
well what i think you should do is to talk to him and talk things out
try to become at least friends again and seduce him when you have him on the spot
trust me it works.
wow. He obviously had a good reason to break up because you just want him to be with you just so it makes you feel better. You just want to make him "suffer" because he decided that the relationship was not going to work…? I hope he leaves you for good because you will never be a good girlfriend.
the best revenge is a life well lived…meaning move on…find someone else and have a blast and never look back. and while you’re out having a blast and doing your thing, he’ll be watching on myspace and wanting you
well what yu do is act like yu dont want him & move on & tht’ll want he lost wen he sees some1 else has yu
you cant make anyone do anything. people do what they want whether its wrong or right to do. if he loves you then he will come back if he doesnt let him go. dont be desperate going after him and calling him and texting. If he left you then get ur mind off of him. Think he wont come back and if he does be happy but dont let him in that quickly. because why did he hurt you in the first place? btw u didnt mention ur age if ur in highschool then hmmm probably not something too serious …but if ur out of highschool then how old are you?> if ur in ur 20s then the situation might be a little different than if ur in ur teens. because teens want new things change and nothings tooo serious all the time. i mean im 19 myself and i have a bf and love him but i get immature sometimes and regret it later. But just cool of basically do ur own thing and if he comes back then see y he left u but if he doesnt then dont prank call or anything because hell know its u and u will seem desperate. if u think he made a mistake then let him realize that himself. if he doesnt sucks for him and if he does let him learn his lesson well!!!
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Emotionally disconnect from him. Let him think you have moved on even though you haven’t. Agree with the break up as if you didn’t want to be with him anyways. Then let him see you with other guys or flirting with other guys it will make him jealous and want you back… and when you don’t let him back he will want you 10x more. It will drive him nuts!
Hey Olivia,
I completely know what you’re feeling! It’s human nature to want the other person to feel the same pain that they’ve heaped on you; "you’ve hurt me now I want to hurt you back."
I’m not going to tell you how to enact revenge/get even, and I’m not going to judge or preach to you about what in my opinion is wrong/right about your situation; obviously you’re feeling hurt right now and it’s totally normal to feel the way you do. You just need to know that you’re much better off now than being with the "ex" you’re going to have many more relationships and you need to learn from each one. Scheming and stewing over how to get even never gets you anywhere, and in the end it really does more harm to you than the "ex." Sustained anger and the need for revenge leads nowhere.
Take care