So how come my ex-gf left me? and do you think I still have a chance?
So how come my ex-gf left me? and do you think I still have a chance?
To make a long story short…
When im smart, attractive, funny, easy going, charming, caring, nice and tell the truth (all the good qualities in a bf)
I went out of my way to please her, made her happy, listened to her.
We talked about anything and everything.
We rarely had our arguements and when we did it was hardly anything to do with us.
She told me that I was the only person that could make her happy, laugh and calm her down when she would get into her angry (kill mood).
She told her family that I made her happy and she told her grandma that she wanted my babys. Years ago she told her grandma that she didnt want babys.
She quit smoking weed and cigs at the same time to be good for me… even though I didnt say anything about wanting her to quit but she did it for me because thats the only thing I didnt like (This was her decision)
A few times in our relationship she told me… to stay where I am at, im too good for her drama and didnt want me apart of this … whenever someone would bring her drama from friends or family. She wanted to move state a while back and still wants too. I told her that I could
handle it and would deal with all the wankers in her life.
The last 2 weeks of our relationship went like this. She tells me that we need to go back to the way we use to be as in friends until I get down there, that we should be together, is hopeful for the future, is working out how were gonna live and told me that once I get setteled
in that we would move somewhere by state or internationally where our family lives. The last compliment she gave me… she was telling me how perfect I am. Couple days later hardcore drama comes into play and than a week later she tells me she dosent want this and breaks it off. She told me that I was too good for this, told me that I ment the world to her and thats why she said she had to do it. I asked her a couple days later about why she left me and she told me that I got annoying the last week to 10 days or so. I admit I had changed and acted differently the last week of our relationship because I found out that I may have cancer, I never told her this because at the time she was dealing with something and I thought it was best to wait until it was the right time to tell her. So I try and win her back for a few days, she puts me on ignore/block and than a week later she starts talking to me asking me how I am. I bought a book on how to get your ex back… magic of making up.. I really do think we should be together and im willing to try the rest of the year until her birthday comes around and probably buy her flowers.
I found out that shes not doing too good financially, she has lost power to her house and is unable to find a job. I think the real reason why she dosent want me is because once im down there she dosent know what to do with me because she thinks she cant take care of me.
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aww poor thing… sounds like ur having a tough time
maybe let her know you are ALWAYS there for her and will be there if she needs anything or need someone to talk to or something along that line..
hmm sounds like you have helped her with a few things and has made her life great while with you.. sounds like she did it to protect you and didnt want you to get into the problems she was having wich could cause more problems with you and her and your guys’ relationship.. maybe give it time and once things start to get a lil better then she might come back around.. or try giving her a call or something everyonce in a while seeing how things are going and just try to chat with her.. if that doesnt work then just wait and give it time.. it sounds to me like you will have a chance with her again if ya give it time and wait for everything to calm down and straighten out.. the flowers thing sounds like a good idea around her bday time
hope ur cancer stuff gets better!! thats terrible to have something like that! my prayrs are with ya
and good luck with the relationship things
hope i helped somewat!
Awww..But she did for a good cause..She doesnt want to be embarrassed..Yea ur chances are still good if she straightns herself out.good luck my dudeee.
i have a lot to say about this…:
-she said that to you about the last 10 days to make you not want her ‘cuz she thinks its the best
-she thinks that she not good enough for you and she knows she has a past and she doesn’t want to deal with it with you there because she knows you’ll still love her and she just wants the truth….do you get me?
-its not that she thinks she cant take of you, its that she doesn’t want you to have to take care of her all the time
my advice: talk to her, tell her that if she needs to deal with it alone that you’ll still be waiting, and if she needs someone, you’ll always be there……..but considering your situation, the cancer i mean, (i’m so sorry, and i wish you all the best of luck) maybe you should tell her about it , i mean, life’s too short, what if the dealing was dealt and she comes to find you gone (sorry, i dont mean it like that)….but i would be sure of you cancer before saying anything……i really hope i helped, and sorry if i’m confusing.
best of luck.