What if your man is still talking to another woman he slept with behind your back?
And you have kids with him. he says they are not talking anymore but the other day she said to me "you cant stop us from talking" but she is a liar. she lies all the time. she might be just mad that he made his family his choice and ditched her after he used her. But in the meantime, i am trying to make myself feel better. im stuck with him, so i cant leave him. i want to trust him so bad and he said he doesnt want her. how do you get over it? how do you forget about what happened and stop obsessing and quit looking through his phone im going crazy i cry alllll the time im sure hes getting tired of reassuring me that hes not talking to her anymore. everytime he leaves the house i go crazy what do you do? has anyone else ever felt this way?
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i felt that way for yeeeeaaars! BUT, if your man really does love you and cares about your family and your feelings he will stick around to keep on reassuring you. he will get tired of it and you will probably fight A LOT, but you can work it out. it takes lots of time and lots of him doing things that make you feel better. doing things like looking at his phone bill and his phone and email or what ever will make you feel better for the moment, but eventually you will have to stop that. i think just a combination of him putting forth a hundred million percent and you doing your best to see why it is you were with him in the first place and time will help. hang in there.
ps. just because you have a family with him does not mean you have to stay. if you try long enough and nothing changes you and your kids will probably be happier on your own. dont loose your other relationships that actually do bring you joy, they may be the ones to lift you up when you feel like you cant.
Sounds like you’re in a jam. I’m sorry.
He is a douche and you should punch him in the face….her too. I felt this way with an ex….I just try to trust in the words they say to me. And you are never stuck….just temporarly held back.
As hard as it’s going to be you just have to trust him. If he is doing things out of line, like coming home extremely late or not wanting to have sex, then you have reason to suspect. But don’t give this woman the satisfaction of driving you crazy and accusing him. She knows what she is doing. I’m not saying he is innocent but don’t just accuse him until you have hard evidence. Stay strong girl!
If he has a family with you he should not be talking to another woman, especially one that he already slept with. How do you know they still talk, maybe she is calling him and he doesn’t call her, if that’s the case he should change is number. You are not stuck with him, just cuz you have kids with this man doesn’t mean you can’t leave him. If he is cheating find away to leave, it is not worth obsessing over it and driving yourself crazy. I have been kinda in the same situation.
Sorry to hear about your situation. First of all…you are never "stuck". I have had a boyfriend cheat on me and some of my friends have had the same shitty luck. I was living with my boyfriend and decided that I couldn’t accept what happened and moved out (I know that’s a lot less serious then having a child together). My good friend has just broken up with her boyfriend of 8 years because she could no longer trust him too. Trust is a really hard thing to gain back. The unfortunate part is that by accusing him you might be pushing him away without realizing. It sounds like you need to have a serious heart to heart with your man. If that doesn’t work I would say it might be in every ones best interest to part ways. I’m sorry to hear about your situation! Best of luck