Will My Ex Boyfriend Come Back To Me?
Will my, now ex boyfriend come back to me?
Is there such a thing as second chance romance?
My now ex boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years. We broke up, for about six months, about 3 years back, and he hooked up with somebody else and got her pregnant. (the baby is now 2 years old). I truly do not believe that he loves her. He is with her because of his son. Even when he is with her, he is seeing and calling me all of the time still. We are truly, closer than ever.
He is afraid that this girl will take his son away from him, because she is very evil and vengeful, and that, IMO, is why he stays with her. She was a piece of azz that went wrong, when she got pregnant…
Anyhow, do you think he will ever take the risk, and come back to me, even if he has a son with her????
I want a life with him, once and for all and I think he wants the same with me.
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he cheated on you and now he;s cheating on her…. do you see a pattern?????
The only way you could possibly know that is if you have a heart-to-heart with him. It’s hard to expect a man to leave the mother of his child, but if he doesn’t love her and he does love you, then maybe he would. Tell him what you told us about what you want with him, and see how he responds. Without knowing you two personally, nobody on the internet is going to be able to predict how your relationship is going to turn out, even though I’d like to be able to tell you.
Even if he did come back if he cheated on you once then he will cheat again. Break the ties. He does not know what a real relationship is about. Time to move on.
i’m assuming he chose her cz of the baby and for some reason maybe he think u cannot give him that (a child). like u mention its been 8 yrs and u guys never had any baby…….so thats kinda answer your question.
my advise u better off without them…..just imagine if u end up w/him and him paying his child support.
well u to need to seriously talk about whats best for each other u cant just sit around and wait for him for ever so tell him that u really love him and would like a life with him but ure not going to wait for ever i mean he needs to think about him slef too yes he has a son and hes also miserable why not just split up and then try and fight for his son! i belive if this man loves u he will try and figure out something good luck hun!
I think there is honest love between the two of you and that he knows he made a huge mistake. It is seriously unfortunate for guys in these things, because he will have to leave his child with it’s mom and have visitation. Of course, he can be firm and petition for it himself. To be the first one to do so gives an advantage. It can be negotiatated, and he has nothing to worry about if he’s a good dad and leads an honest life. This is a more common circumstance than people think it is. And I’ve personally seen very good men go through this. Eventually, they will be driven crazy, but you can’t make them leave unless they want to/are ready to. He didn’t cheat on you, if you were broken up, it happens. I think though, that you should tell him how you feel, and make it clear you aren’t going to be his emotional tie/crutch. If he wants you to be that close, he’s gotta stand up for himself first. Remember too, you’ll always have to deal with her =)
That could happen it’s just maybe he should have been alot more careful when he was sleepin with her. I’m sure that he loves you and deep down in side he wants to be with you more then ever. But I think it will take alot of courage to leave that other girl because of his son. Remember the child always comes first. But if you guys love each other then both of you guys need to find a way to do that, and also to see his son. Good luck
i’m going through a similar situation. my ex and i were together for 10 yrs and now he is seeing someone. i think because he has slept with the girl already he feels obligated to her in some way. although he has been seeing her for about a month he started expressing how much he regrets us not being together. if you guys were together eight years and that means nothing to him, then i dont think you should get back into that. i hate when men use kids as an excuse. legally she cannot keep his son away, men have rights. i think you would just set yourself for more hurt. i mean could you really deal with him and his baby. a constant reminder that he got something else outside of you guys?
wow you just broke up for 6 months and in that time he got another woman pregnant O_o no offense but he sure was quick, are you sure that he was in deep love with you? …… and whether he likes it or not he has to take care of what he did now, I mean no one forced him I am sure of that so he has to deal with the consequences no matter what. Whatever you do just make sure that he does take care of his son. If he puts you above his son I am sorry, but this guy is not as good as he seems if he does that. My suggestion is to do whatever you have to do, but always remember that he has to take care of his son even if he is with you, and whether he likes the mother or not (he did like her in those 6 months, so too bad now he has to deal with her forever because she is the mother of his son) ……… for your main question: it wouldn’t surprise me if he comes back to you, but do not force anything. The situation that he is in right now requires decisions made by him not by you.