women who left your husband and went back, what caused it?
there are 2 trains of thought regarding getting back with an ex. one is, make her jealous and date around and let her know you can move on and be strong. however, i’m the type that i really did love the woman so i can’t date. i don’t want to. i want to reconcile eventually. she may be dating other guys and that’s fine. love is more than just dating or sex. i did date a girl for awhile and yeah i had sex with her but it was empty not like with my wife. so in a woman’s eyes is it better to see her man move on, get more interests, work on his career or is it better to try to move on and date and have her see me with another woman? If you wanted your husband back, would you be more apt to go back if he worked on other things other than women or if he was out banging and dating everything that moved. my point of view, i valued how much i loved her so i don’t date because of that. not for her but because i don’t want to cheapen it. for a woman what’s better to see in your ex?
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DON"T DO IT!!
In my case i left my husband due to issues he had to work out for himself. Seeing that he had made steps to better himself ( stopping drugs, no longer drinking, not being out with other women) was the huggest thing for me. in the end the face that he improved himself not only for himself but for me and his children was what made me go back
It’s not about making her jealous ~ that’s a stupid argument in my opinion.
It sounds like you still really love your wife & want to reconcile so start attending to the things that she gave as her reasons for wanting a separation ~ like Val says ~ you have to do this to better yourself, for yourself.
If there is any hope of reconcilliation your wife will see the changes in you & return to you.
Good luck.
When we were separated for a couple of years, I did not want him to feel lonely; I just did not want to be the one who was supposed to cushion the blow for him.
After all, I was the one who left in the first place because me and his kids came last on his list of priorities.
I did not like the guilt of knowing he was emotionally free falling, so I even tried to fix him up with a few of my friends.
I wanted him to be a more mature and well rounded person, and I knew darned well that no other woman would have put up with being stuffed into a house, then ignored, either. He needed to learn not to take a woman for granted and that a relationship doesn’t stop growing the minute you’ve finished your business at the altar.
Work on your own happiness.
Work on your world being the kind of place she would want to live in.
If my man cheated on me I will leave him for another man or if my and other woman pregnant I will leave him to for a better man