Comments on: I Want My Husband Back, Is There Any Way To Reach Him Now? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: le_roche http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/comment-page-1/#comment-37962 le_roche Tue, 23 Feb 2010 17:23:17 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/#comment-37962 You should take a cue from your ex-husband; find a therapist (not the same one you're both going to) and find out what caused you to be depressed for five years. You also need to understand why you needed the affection of so many animals to make you feel loved. You don't mention how you dealt with your severe depression, and if it continues to be an issue for you. Before you can understand where your husband's mind is at, you need to understand what affects and motivates you. Frankly, you may find that maybe getting married wasn't a good idea. Or maybe you'll make sense of your feelings, evolve into a happier person-- with our without your husband back in your life. The first step is to understand and make peace with yourself. Everything else will fall into place after that. If you don't, you'll continue to be miserable, whether with your husband, someone else or by yourself. Leave your husband alone for the time being and work on yourself. You should take a cue from your ex-husband; find a therapist (not the same one you’re both going to) and find out what caused you to be depressed for five years. You also need to understand why you needed the affection of so many animals to make you feel loved. You don’t mention how you dealt with your severe depression, and if it continues to be an issue for you. Before you can understand where your husband’s mind is at, you need to understand what affects and motivates you. Frankly, you may find that maybe getting married wasn’t a good idea. Or maybe you’ll make sense of your feelings, evolve into a happier person– with our without your husband back in your life.

The first step is to understand and make peace with yourself. Everything else will fall into place after that. If you don’t, you’ll continue to be miserable, whether with your husband, someone else or by yourself. Leave your husband alone for the time being and work on yourself.

]]> By: Nasty Na http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/comment-page-1/#comment-37963 Nasty Na Tue, 23 Feb 2010 17:23:17 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/#comment-37963 OMG ! You need to just move on. With or without the dogs. OMG ! You need to just move on. With or without the dogs.

]]> By: Julie-Anne http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/comment-page-1/#comment-37964 Julie-Anne Tue, 23 Feb 2010 17:23:17 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/#comment-37964 wow, that's a story all right. I honestly can't figure out what he is thinking by this description, so I can see why you are confused. The dogs is just an issue to cover up something else he is feeling. That sounds like your life's work and I certainly wouldn't change your feelings about your job at this point. My best advice would be likely to just leave him be for now, if he wants you back he knows where you are... let him do the chasing and meanwhile, keep at what you were meant to do. If you are meant to be together, you will be... but you can't put your life on hold or change it because of him. wow, that’s a story all right. I honestly can’t figure out what he is thinking by this description, so I can see why you are confused. The dogs is just an issue to cover up something else he is feeling. That sounds like your life’s work and I certainly wouldn’t change your feelings about your job at this point. My best advice would be likely to just leave him be for now, if he wants you back he knows where you are… let him do the chasing and meanwhile, keep at what you were meant to do. If you are meant to be together, you will be… but you can’t put your life on hold or change it because of him.

]]> By: love&kindness http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/comment-page-1/#comment-37965 love&kindness Tue, 23 Feb 2010 17:23:17 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/#comment-37965 guys like to keep things bottled up inside. just give him his space to figure things out. and if u are depressed then need help as well. i understand that u wanted to give the dogs a home but u have a marriage that is more important and a guy who was trying to explain to u how he felt and now that he is gone every things seems loud and clear to u now. don't pressure him into telling u his true emotions. support his decision and let that be it. he will come around. guys like to keep things bottled up inside. just give him his space to figure things out. and if u are depressed then need help as well. i understand that u wanted to give the dogs a home but u have a marriage that is more important and a guy who was trying to explain to u how he felt and now that he is gone every things seems loud and clear to u now. don’t pressure him into telling u his true emotions. support his decision and let that be it. he will come around.

]]> By: FrenchCan007 G http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/comment-page-1/#comment-37966 FrenchCan007 G Tue, 23 Feb 2010 17:23:17 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5521/i-want-my-husband-back-is-there-any-way-to-reach-him-now/#comment-37966 No hope. You are totally focused on your dogs. I am sure you will feel comfort by them. I personnally have 4 dogs but my wife does not want to take second place to them. They live outside. I have kids too. They are are higher importance than my canine family. Yes it is true that dogs will love you no matter what. That is cool but it seems like you lost focus with humans. It happens. No hope. You are totally focused on your dogs. I am sure you will feel comfort by them. I personnally have 4 dogs but my wife does not want to take second place to them. They live outside. I have kids too. They are are higher importance than my canine family. Yes it is true that dogs will love you no matter what. That is cool but it seems like you lost focus with humans. It happens.

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