My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. We did not talk for 6 for six months, not a word. I went up to Indiana to visit a friend that was married with a baby girl. I realized that my friend was acting just like i did with my boyfriend. Jealous, insecure, possessive. The only difference was that her situation was 10x’s worse than mine. I realized what a crazy person i was with my ex and i felt horrible. While i was up there i decided to call him. Not to get back together but to tell him that i see things differently and to apologize to him. I did and he accepted my apology then we talked about an hour just about what we had been up to. We hung up the phone and i felt so good because i finally had closure. When i got home from my trip i had an email from my ex. He wanted to have dinner. OMG!!! I was freaking out, i did not know what to do. I was scared to meet with him because i finally felt like i was over him and if we got back together what if i just lost him all over again. My mom talked me into meeting with him because she said i would never know what would happen if i did not go. I did and on my way to meet him i swore to myself that i would not bring up the past at all and i have already made my peace with our past relationship. We met and had a great time. We did get back together and picked right back up where we had left off. It was like we never broke up, but also like we never had hard times. Instead of talking about the past we both made sure to never do the things that hurt each other in the first half of our relationship. Six months after that meeting we were engaged and a year after that we were married and a year after that i gave birth to our son.

You are asking how to get back together, the first step is to forgive and forget the past. Remember what you did to each other and change that behavior. Don’t talk about it, just do it. It is ok to apologize but after that move on. You have already apologized so don’t do it again. You have made a move now it is up to him to make the next move. Trust me, it will make such a huge difference if he wants you back and you don’t beg him to come back to you. Value the fact that you have him back and take care of him. Love him and make sure you don’t hurt him again and it will not go unnoticed. I hope this helped you. My husband and i are so happy and i am so thankful i made that trip to Indiana so i could see my faults. I hope it works out the same for you.