How can you get your ex boyfriend back?…?
Hi, i have been with my boyfriend a year and a half, we have broken up a few times before but the break up has only lasted a few days – a week.
We haved been arguing alot lately and i have been getting at him because he has been texting other girls when we argue. I realise now i was very harsh getting at him all the time.
He ended it yesturday and then rang me 3 hours later and asked me if i had his ex’s number.
i am passed myself, what can i do to get him back?
please help.. thank you x
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Hey there,
Once you decide you want to get back with your ex, you need to be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. We all make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s influential.
7 Advices To Get Back With Ex
1. So sit down on your own and take some time to go through what happened and what were the issues that led up to what happened. Don’t bother yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can effect.
2. Any mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unpardonable . You would be surprised at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they at a later time recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!
3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, especially if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you should do this.
4. You might find out that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family issues . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail exactly what you have found.
5. If your mistakes originated in you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be rewarding.
6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange a meeting. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral due to the fact that then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.
7. So, make sure that you remain calm and concentrated on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen with great attention to what your ex has to say.
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Im sorry but i wouldnt waste anymore time on him-on and be happy.
Okay he obisously rang looking for this girls number to make you jelous…Pretend it doesnt bother you maybe flirt with his friends…because if he wants you back itl scare him if he think hes gonna lose you……gudluck
Whatever you do don’t try to make him jealous, all he was trying to do was make you jealous because guys will do that. What you need to do is be really nice, ask him to take you back, be sweet. I’m a guy and i know how this happens, if you do anything mean to him he’ll just do something back, it’ll go up and up until you’re in bed with each other’s friends, i suggest that you just try and make up and if that doesn’t work then ignore him until he comes back to you, if he’s worth keeping then he’ll come back when you ask and then if he has too much pride then he’ll come back later, just don’t make him jealous!
why do you want him back?
he text other girls while your with him, he called you for another girls number?
is this someone you want to be with?
most girls wouldnt want too
you didnt force him to text other girls, just because you argue doesnt text other girls
my boyfriend trys to sort it out with me when we argue, he doesnt text anyone
this isnt a stable relationship, our on off on off
i would call it off for good and delete his number and delete him out of your life if i was you
find yourself a man not a boy
someone who will look after you treat you right
treat you the way you deserve
have more respect for yourself
When all looks lost and you’re trying to figure out how to get back with your ex, one of the things you need to hold onto is that 95% of all relationships that look as if they’re well and truly over, need not be. There is always hope, all it takes is for at least one person wanting to save the relationship and it can be saved.
The first key to figuring out how to get back with your ex is to leave your ex alone for at least a month – if at all possible longer than a month will work even better. So break all contact with them and give your ex plenty of time to think things through.
Often times in the heat of the breakup things get said and positions get taken that given time, are soon relinquished as reasoning takes over. So if you want to get to the heart of how to get back with your ex then seriously, give yourself and your ex some time.
If you don’t allow for this space to think and you continue trying to push the issue to get your ex back before the time is right, then what will happen is that the more you push, the harder your ex will push back. Remember, your ex has walked out on the relationship and clearly demonstrated that they need time to think and be left alone, give them that time.
If you’re worried that all looks lost because your ex is dating someone else, then you need to remember and hold onto the fact that a lot of rebound relationships just don’t last. Chances are your ex is dating that person as a way to convince themselves that their relationship with you is really over. However, just because they’re trying to convince themselves their relationship with you is over for good. Guess what? It doesn’t mean that it is.
It is a statistical fact that rebound relationships are fraught with difficulties and very rarely work because the person on the rebound is still emotionally connected to their ex. So don’t waste a whole lot of time worrying about someone your ex is currently dating.
The truth is getting your ex back is more about the two of you than anyone else, so make sure that you keep on top of your appearance, you’re not doing anything to alienate your ex and that you’re appearing in control and pretty soon you will have stopped wondering how to get your ex back, because they’ll be back with you.