How to get her trust back?
2 weeks ago I violated my girlfriend trust by messaging her sister and telling her sis about our relationship, the problem that I’m having with her and how to solve it and get to know her better. The thing is I never talked to her sister before and I came to her sis outta the blue. Her sis told her about and that made her freaked out. She told me to never talk to her, her sister and her family ever again. She once told me not to ask about her from other people. I did that once a year ago and it led to our first break up but we got together again the next day .
However, last week, we started to talk and she said what I did was a major major major trust violation in which she can’t get past. It was the same thing happened to her years before. Sorry is not enough. She is scared and afraid of me and she said she doesn’t like to be afraid of me and she is angry that I scare her like that. Well, she said she miss me and thinking about me everyday. She said she is sorry and she just can’t do it, not at the moment and not for a long while.
I love her so much but I know she has to get over this but I don’t know how to help her. She told me to leave her alone and I don’t know what to do and how long should I stay away from her. I haven’t talked to her for 5 days now. I can’t get enough sleep, I don’t eat much, I’m losing weight and I’m feeling sad at times. I tried to cheer myself up by shopping with my sis and mom and watch movies but I’m still sad within. I just wana gain her trust back and help her get over the trauma. Any advice?
I gave her flower last week, it led us to talk.
our last conversation she said "I can’t. I’m sorry. Not right now anyway. Not for a long while." Do u think i have a chance or at least put some hope in it or is it over for good..?
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ok so historys has repeated itself again? you did the same thing prior and that caused an earlier brakeup? why would you think this time would be any different. listen, in your relationship theirs two people you and her. in each couple as their growing closer together trust is a major deal. If that trust is repeatedly violated hence you now twice it puts a strain on the relationship. it also makes you self reflex the whole relationship. your saying "i love her so much’ why couldn’t you work out your relationship issues between the two of you? so now this relationships going through turmoil shes feeling like where do we go from here if I cant trust? your filled with guilt ? Some couples don’t move past the non trusting stuff it’s scarey I know but learning that lesson honestly once should have been enough for you..
the ball is really in her court now shes reviewing the relationship and needs space as she said.. sort of how men go into their man caves right?
Time will tell and when shes ready she will let you know. keep busy it will help! and remember only TWO people are in any seriously relationships and only those two know whats really going on within them:}
warm regards and
good luck!
do like she asked and leave her alone. when she is ready then she will let you know. if you push it then you will lose her. believe me.