Will no contact with my ex boyfriend make him come back to me?
Does no contact when you want your boyfriend back work? He broke up with me last Saturday because I confessed a lie to him and he said that once he fixed himself up we could try again but I am starting to not believe that. We went no contact until I called him Tuesday to check on me and he never called back. I just told myself that it is over and I didn’t try to call or email again. I am accepting the break up and the possibility that we may never get back together again. Does he miss me? Am I doing the right thing by moving on? We talked at least 4 hours a day and were on the computer instant messaging all through the day while we worked. I can still see his status on face book and it still says in a relationship and his instant message program still shows our picture together. Does he just need time to regroup? Will he come back out of his man cave? Am I doing the right thing by preparing for the inevitable future without him?
People make mistakes and I made a huge one. I am not perfect and I came to him with the truth. He didn’t find out from anyone else or have an inclination that I lied to him. I wanted to be mature and fix the situation between us and if he can’t forgive me or doesn’t want to be with me through the tough parts and the thick and thin, then maybe he wasn’t the one for me. I should be able to come to my partner and tell my partner the good, bad and ugly about me and he has the choice of accepting me or not. The partner that accepts me for who I am with all of my flaws is the partner for me.
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Yes, absolutely. Don’t contact him and he’ll come running back.
Just keep doing what your doing and things will eventually fall into place how they are supposed to.
Relax is the best advice i can give you. You can’t control him. What you need to focus on is you. what you want and try to do things that will take your mind off of it. If he does want to get back together with you you need to ask yourself serious questions like do i want to be with him and was i happy, and will our relationship ever be the same after this. Hope all goes well for you. Good luck
He probably misses you some, break-ups are never easy. But chances are he’s moving on and you should do the same. If he wants to come back, he will. But there is nothing you can do to *make* him come back, he has his own mind. He may need some time, or this may be the end. But all you can do is get on with your life and things will play out the way they are supposed to.
PSHH. GURL U FAILED… NO GUYS WANT GURLS BACK WEN THE GUYS GOOTA CHANCE TO FAWK THEM ALREADY ATIE SO STOP DREAMIN AND MOVE ON U DUN=MB PIECE OF SHITE……
I think that your doing the right thing by moving on. Boys are always gunna b confusing. The thing is though that if you ignore him completely he will notice that u are a very strong person. Don’tmake it seem like your desperate. That is probably the worst thing that you could do.
it sounds like you are broken up, try one more time to contact him, letting him know you still are interested, but not sounding desperate, if he is right for you he will fight for you….. if he doesnt care about you than he will not talk to again…. in that case then he is not right for you to begin with. just don’t push it by contacting him over and over…. good luck, and please don’t chase him if the case is he is not interested no girl should be treated like that… but he coudl just need some time and let him find it
if its meant to happen it will
and anyway its probably best not to contact him because at least that way you’ll know
He is probably just deciding what he wants to do and regroup. Don’t contact him. And definitely don’t call him constantly begging for him back….that will just push him away more. I wouldn’t be prearing for the future without him quite yet because it has only been a week.
Good luck!
Let him breath and regroup as you said and see things in a different light, he needs time and if you love him, and I believe you do let him have this time. I think you are a sensible women to step back and except all you have stated, and except whatever happens it for the best, so keep doing what you are doing and move on for now.
Best thing to do is leave him alone, don’t call don’t text, don’t I’M, don’t look @ his facebook page just seriously try to focus on you & stay busy, you’re doing the right thing, but don’t feel rejected, its okay you broke up & move on if necessary, get your thoughts and priorities adjusted & back in order and have a girls night out, men come and go, if its not meant to be, you’ll meet someone better… good luck to you and stay strong and focused on you…
SHOULD OF NEVER LIED!