What can i do to get my girl back?
Hello, I wish somebody can help me out… I met a girl at work and we were talking for two days and then she showed me her picture and showed interest, then I asked her for her number and we spent lots of the time talking in the phone (around 3-4 hours) daily. One day she her land line rings and she told me that it was her friend so I suggested she answer the phone and she told me I’ll get back to you when I get done. I waited for an hour and she didn’t call I called her and she didn’t answer…then I called again and the phone was busy. That kinda get me upset because I was waiting for her to call me back…after another hour or so she sent me a message saying that she feels sleepy and good night… I called her and told that I was waiting and ended the call. She called me to apologize and I told her that I’m not mad but I’m upset about it and let it go. The following day I texted her and explain why I was upset and she didn’t comment. After work that day I called her and she didn’t answer, I kept calling her, then she answered me saying this is annoying I’m trying to take a nap, I’ll call you when I wake up. I waited for 4 hours then I called her twice and she didn’t answer. The next morning I went to her office and gave her a note that I wrote "How could you do this to me?” She didn’t comment/ no message/ no e-mail. I went to her office again and asked her is there anything wrong, why you are not talking to me? She said I don’t want you to get upset but you’re annoying. I then sent her a message to apologize and explained that I was trying to call her cuz I missed her. After lunch time in the same day I went to her office and she were smiling and I asked her if everything is okay and she said yes. At the end of the day I asked her if I can call her she said yes…I then asked after 20 min? She said yes. I called her after 20min, 30 min and at night she didn’t answer any of my calls. This was last Wednesday and she didn’t get back to me yet. She were saying that I’m very attractive to her and that she likes me and like how I look and how I dress she even said that she likes the way I look at her and that my eyes is killing her. Can you please explain to me what is going on?
Thanks
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I Asked the above question earilier and some of you guys answered me and i’m very thankful to those of you who answered. The answers were; give the girl some time and space….ignore her for a while and maybe she’ll call…..some also said that she is palying…not intersted…change her mind…..
What is important to me now …. What is the best i can do to get her back (if possible)? Knowing that she works in th same company she is in fornt of my unit but i’m usually out so i can see her and i can disapper.
Please let me know what you think ….. i gald i can get your help
Thank you all
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I think you were coming on too strong for her, or it’s boring to her if you are always there. As long as you are chasing her, she’s going to run; she likes the chase, even though it’s tearing you up. What you have to do is ‘flip the script’. When you see her, even if you have to go out of your way to walk by her, and she’ll know there’s no point for you to have to be there, just glance at her with a LITTLE smile, and look away like you’re thinking of something else. Disappear a little while, a few days, maybe let her notice you but you don’t see her. She’s playing a game. Some girls do that. They like the chase, but they don’t realize the hurt they are causing or maybe they do and they feel empowered by you chasing them. Since she’s given you every word that she likes you, just play it cool and when she feels the frustration you’ve been feeling, she’ll be calling you, annoying you! Trust me, if she likes you at all, the flipping of the script will absolutely work. I’m a girl, I’ve had those games played with me. Act like you don’t see her and STOP CALLING HER, she’ll come looking for you!