How can I make my ex boyfriend regret dumping me and want me back???
Me and my ex just broke up about a week ago because its summer, and he has alot to do and never has time to see me. but he wants to get back together when the school year starts. does this mean he still likes me? and he still talks to me like we’re going out and says I love you and stuff. it makes me mad because i still like him. its like hes getting what he wants without the title. i told him im not gonna wait around for him. but i dont like any other guys right now. i dont know what to do about this. Help Please!!!! guys what do you think a guy means when he says that and what would make you want her back? girls what would you do if u were in this situation?
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You can’t make him.
Sounds like he still likes you.
Don’t be selfish, don’t put him under any emotional stress, thats what he is trying to avoid so he can accomplish whatever he is doing in the summer.
Be a DECENT human being. Don’t be a drama-whore.
flirt with other men, show him the you got over him. even get a bit sexual in front of him with other guys. When the summer is over dont get back. tell him that you have needs and that your not going to wait for anyone while they do what they want with their time. that would drive me crazy
By moving on and living a happy and fulfilling life.
yea. Dress in better clothes.
offer him sex, he’ll come running back
He want’s to be single for the summer just in case something better comes up, and save you as his backup plan in case he can’t find anyone else.
Move on. You could do so much better than some guy who’s going to string you along. Enjoy your summer being single and have the time of your life!
I would go out and have some fun and get ex boyfriend off my mind.
Next time he says something like "i love you" ask what does that mean, since he broke up with you.
I actually am in a similar situation, A boy who I’m in love with is telling me that he loves me and that our relationship will be in the future because he’s dating someone closer to him. We don’t live in the same town. BUT, I think that the fact that you two live in the same town makes things less complicated than my situation. If you two really love one another than he needs to see that as you two should be with one another. You should talk to him about it, it looks like he’s just looking for freedom? If he’s still able to tell you he loves you and acts like you’re going out but won’t actually comitt a title that’s just not right. Tell him it’s either you’re with me or you’re not with me, I love you and I want to be with you.
sorry, I’m a guy. I don’t understand women of your type. You guys don’t think rationally at all.
"but he wants to get back together when the school year starts. does this mean he still likes me?"
"it makes me mad because i still like him."
"Me and my ex just broke up about a week ago because its summer"
this guy is an obvious asshole who barely cares about you. Telling you he loves you is as simple as me typing this message for you. How do you still like him? You tell me he breaks up with you for a stupid reason (not so stupid in his mind of course because there is an ulterior motive) and you still like him?!??!
Wow, what a paragraph!
Firstly, he is giving you your freedom, and hoping you will be available when summer is over.
Secondly he sounds to be busy, very busy, which means he might be able to see you twice a week tops? at that probably spending most of what he make to do so too.
I dont know how you are, but when I was of school age going 2 days without seeing my girlfriend was tough, I would break off with them over the summer, and write letters and call a few times a week, but I let them free to do as they wish.
He knows he cant see enough of you so he is doing what he thinks is best, giving both of you your freedom. If you do decide to date someone else over the summer, do not tell him until it gets serious.
If when school starts you still like him enough, and he feels the same then you can always get back together.
Unless all he does is come over for sex he isnt using you.
honestly, i dont know why you would want to be with someone that treats you like a doormat. he only wants you when he has nothing to do. he wants to be single during the summer so he can go out with other girls and when he gets tired he knows you will always welcome him with legs, i mean arms open.
go out on dates, and enjoy your time with other guys. dont forget about your grilfriends either. dont call him, or look for him. get a new makeover and if you want a new boyfriend along with it.
you know, you dont have to have a boyfriend to be happy, you are free to do whatever you please and flirt with whoever you want, this guy doesnt seem like the right guy and you will find the right one eventually. And trust me, he will want you back as soon as you reject him and say you rather stay single or get a new boyfriend. but dont lower yourself to him by tacking him back. value yourself, you are more important than that and deserve better.
Move on because apparently he only wants to be sinlge for the summer vacation and see other girls and then when summer is over and no girls around then he’s ready to be back with you which should tell you one thing he is using you. so best to move on
Ignore the people who are being mean to you. I AM in this situation, so I can relate. I’d say don’t get back together with him. Mess with his mind. That’s what he deserves for being such a guy. Go back to school totally different. Not the inside, outside. Dye your hair really cool, get a hot new haircut, super cute clothes, great tan, and maybe lose weight if you are on the slightly chubby side.
Hair dying-
If you’re blonde, dye the underneath dark brown. Or go light brown. Never darker than a medium brown. If you don’t want to dye your hair, skip this section. You could get highlights if you’re not looking for something extreme. Caramel and platinum are super hot together.
If you’re brunette, my advice is to dye it darker. If you wanna go lighter, your going to need to bleach it. Bleaching sucks. For highlights, you can get auburn, caramel, or blonde. For darker brunettes, stay away from platinum.
If you’re a redhead, I suggest staying natural except maybe some highlights. Highlights should be auburnish. A.k.a. darker red.
If you have black hair, the best would be going a dark brunette with caramel highlights. Highlights could be a dark blueish. Jet black hair and a slightly blueish highlights are super hot.
Hair cutting/styling:
Very short: Don’t cut anymore. Style with clips, gel etc.
Short: Stay away from thick bangs. It will make you look like an anime doll. Mini pigtails are adorable.
Medium: Layers are great. Maybe get sideswept bangs. Low pigtails, braids, high ponies etc. are great. If you have curly hair, go straight sometimes. Straight haired girls can go wavy. Etc. etc. etc.
Long: Maybe go shorter. Layers are cool too. Research bangs on Google for a great change. See above for stylings.
Clothes:
Everything really depends on what your budget is or what your style is. Hollister, Abercrombie, Aeropostale, American Eagle, Forever 21, Wet Seal, Ralph Lauren, Kohls, JCPenneys, Payless are some of my favorite stores. Make sure you get some cute shoes too.
Tan:
Grab a book, some water, and sunscreen and sit out in your backyard for a while. Or you could spray tan with a can from a drugstore. Pale is beautiful too.
Boys:
Flirt. I love driving guys crazy by flirting with other guys. It works. Trust me.
Remember, don’t change for a guy. This should be for you..plus a little payback to this jerk.
Hi,
Well i think this is not a very difficult task to do because i think if you want to get him or her back then you just have to do some simple things. Like try to realize him or her absence. Try to attract him. Anyways i think there are so many ways through which we can do this thing easily. Anyways keep it up and keep continue with your valuable thoughts.