Should i get back with my ex?
I have dated a girl for almost three years. We broke up about four weeks ago to do our own things and and planned to get back together in a couple months. After two weeks being apart she had sex with some other guy. Now she "realized" she really did love me because of it and wants to get back together. We were "Technically" apart but it still hurt a lot when i found out what she did. Should i get back with her after she hurt me so bad?
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That really must bite, but if you love her you’ve got to think long and hard about if you love her or not. Try not to think about the sex, it’s really just a meaningless act of pleasure if one doesn’t love the other.
never get back with ex’s !! trust me if you don’t … i don’t care????
You’re an idiot.
Why are you dating her. You should simply revert back to being friends with benefits. Moron.
time is the healer. get back to your life. you woudl be fine. If you can write it out here, means you can control your emotions too.
best of luck
I don’t think anyone can really tell you the right answer to that. If it helps, try to imagine what your life would be like without her, and if you don’t like what you imagine, then give it another shot.
Never. don’t let her do that to you.
Yes,you guys were apart when this happened,therefore she did nothing to wrong you. You both agreed to be single at this time,and single people can do that. But dont get back together with her if you know you"ll only resent her because of this incident,but you really shouldn’t she did nothing wrong because she was single at the time.
well if yall we’re sooo in love why did yall go your sepreate ways to do your own thing. && when yall did go your seperate ways "to do your own thing" what did you think she would do you only break up with some one && plan on getting back with them later if you want to be able to mess around with other people. its a little confusing of why yall think yall are "so in love" && yall split up for no reason…. so after this maybe you’ll kno.
understood much the same has happened to me, but with me it was more of I was wrong and I all of a sudden didn’t understand her, so we break up for a bit she goes and does as yours, and she wants me back, I kinda just believe she was getting bored of me, (we haven’t had sex) and wanted a fling, and then wanted the love of a real relationship… well that is my opinion hope you can make sense of it.
OMG, exactly the same thing happened with me but the boyfriend went on with dating the other girl.
But since your girl realized that she really does love you then I think you should give it a shot. She really loves you afterall and love is about forgetting each other and excusing some of each other’s mistakes when you guys are so blindly in love with each other.
Fighting and ending up will only make things worse because both of you know you can’t live without each other.
Don’t break-up.
Hope I helped.
Well technically you can’t be upset at her for what she did. I mean of course you’re going to be hurt because you loved her but you two weren’t together at the time. As a plus, she did tell you rather than keeping it a secret so obviously she wants to be honest with you. I believe that she probably does love you and want to be with you. Sometimes it’s very true that it takes falling apart to actually realize that you should be with each other. Regardless of what I think though, it all depends on what you’re feeling. From what you’ve said about her she seems honest. So give it a try, or not. Make sure you do what you want to do and not because you feel obligated to do it. good luck!
I’ve done this before. I did this to my ex. FOR ME it was because I still loved him because for so long that’s all I knew to do. And once I broke up with him I did in deed miss him- just enough to keep him around if I didn’t like the single life. In fact the single life was rough for me so I ran back and forth to him between boyfriends…but I never took him back. Once, I had the strength to make him move out I knew I was done…I was just a bit codependent… Know that sounds bad but its just the truth. Don’t go back to her. She’s wishy washy…you don’t need that.
It seems like although her actions were kind of insensitive they weren’t completely reprehensible because of the presence of HONESTLY.
If you love her, and she loves you – wait a month. Try to be happy without her and just enjoy your life, go about your day and perform regular activities.
If you still at the end of that month are head over heels, then reconnect. But its quite possible right now you are feeling pain, a little love and ALOT of jealousy.
no i wouldnt if she jumped to another guy so quick after a 3 year relationship who knows what else she has don e in those 3 years i wouldnt waste my time and look desperate im sure you can find way better
No! she went in someone bed for 2 weeks and now she love you? she just realize that they don’t treat her just like you did.