You think she'll come back to me and what do I do?
My wife has just left me for her ex. They were together for 7 years and have 2 children. Me and her JUST got married. We been together for about one and a half years. She had her kids calling me daddy. He has been a dead beat father to them. He’s hit them, neglected them on his weekends, and not payed any child support. I am in the Marines. He has nothing to offer her. Yeah me and her had problems but nothing to big to work a marriage. She has done this before and left me but came back to me. But last time she left me for another Marine and he just wanted her for one thing. I’m hurting now. She has always said how she will never go back to him. He is a dead beat and has absolutely nothing to offer her. He even still lives with Mommy at 26. What should I do? She even went as far as serving me for divorce. I posted this question earlier and got alot of "just leave hers" yes I know! But I want to know if she’ll come back to me. What do I do to get her back to me? I know she loves me and I know she’s confused. WHAT DO I DO? Any marriage can be saved!!!
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Listen man my wife left me for some dude she was seeing on the side. We was together for 8 yrs married for 2 years divorce in October 2009. She told me six months after our wedding, YEAH THIS IS NOT A MISPRINT SIX MONTHS THAT OUR WEDDING WILL NOT WORK AND SHE WANT A DIVORCE. Like you I was hurt and devastated, I never cheated on my wife. I have two jobs and back in college getting my masters. I try to work on my marriage, you name it I did it. But it didn’tt work, after a couple of months doing my own investigation I found out she was cheating. She file for the divorce because I told her that I wasn’tt paying for it.
You need not worry about this women, if she want to come back tell her to fukk off. She will never change she will do it again if you accept this women back into your life. You have everything going for yourself fcuk that cheating azz bYtch. Get the divorce and be done with her.
Trust me man I know how you feel you’re going to be hurting for a long time, but you don’t need a women like this in your life. This was the best decision I ever made in my life. My wife is a Evil selfish women, your wife is the same. You need to get a divorce ASAP! If you want to talk email me. Good luck and again Im sorry.
Oh I forgot if she is pregnant and she said its yours I highly recommend that you get a paternity test.
if she didnt come back since the last time you posted this she dont wont you just pay her the money and move on with you’re life
person treat a person the way they let them treat them if you like been left for other men just sat there and wait one day you will learn that you can’t make a w—- into a housewife
She doesn’t love you. She has left you for two other men and has served you with papers. She was using you for your Marine paycheck.
two people have to want to be in the marriage.. not just one…
not all marriages can be saved.. that’s why there is so much divorce
she obviously has issues with you since she moves in and out from you
she now wants to try it again with her old guy.. and then she will leave him too to try with someone else
as hard as it may be.. tell her if she leaves you now.. it is over for good and go out and find yourself someone more sane
Well, first of all you said she has a pattern of doing this in the past and she has come back to you.
Chances are she will come back. You sound like you are the only REAL stability in her life at this time. I think she will realize that eventually and return home. Like you already said, none of them have anything to offer her and it is really too bad that she just isn’t seeing it right now… But trust me, she will finally figure it out…She may think it is all going to be wonderful again with the ex, until the reality of it all hits home and I think she’ll regret her decision to leave.
Honestly, I don’t think you have to do a darn thing…just be patient, see what happens, she divorced him once, why would it be ANY better this time with him… and quite frankly if he couldn’t even pay his child support or treat his children well when he was with her…..why would she think he would magically change overnight…???? She is chasing some kind of fantasy dream in her own mind…when the reality hits her, she will be back….and YOU will be there waiting for her….if you choose to be….if you still want to make it work..I wish you much luck……
Edit: Just an afterthought…..it really is such a shame for a mother to not be able to make up her mind and drag her children from one man’s home to another…..where is the stability for her children, and what is she teaching them…???….Too bad…..she may need some help with these issues…..
I am one of those "love conquers all people" but I say sign the papers. She obviously needs help of some kind. If she left you twice even if she does come back she will end up leaving you again. Love conquers all when people love each other. Good luck
Well, statistically marriages are already doomed before they start so I don’t think they all can be saved.