Want to save marriage after serious tebulants. And I still a love her and the two kids.?
She does nt want to try any more because she is went out last weekend and met this guy whom she said she would be happy to see again. Now I know I have messed up in the past. I know the importance of family. I have been separated for nine mths. I dont want to see other people. I want my family back. But she wants to see this guy. I told her today I will do what ever it takes. If she gu=ives it a mth while we stay under the same roof we might work. She told me she does nt want us any more. I meant every word I said to her. I could nt work today thinking about her and the kids. How do I deal with this pain.
I miss the kids when I go to my house. We have also been sleeping together while I have been staying apart. How do i she her that I really want things to work. I really love my family.
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First of all let me say that you are among a rare breed of man. I think it’s awesome that you care so much to make things work. You seem like a great guy. My husband and I were separated for 11 months, going through the exact same thing. He asked me to try couples counseling. I was reluctant but I did it. It was the best thing I ever did. He made me fall in love with him all over again, he would do little things for me, that he knew i loved, and trust me it made a difference. I just wanted to feel exhileration again. He brought it back. Try little things, trust they do matter. Offer to take the kids so she can hava a woman day. Give her a gift certificate to a spa. Just for her. Try to offer the couples counseling. It was the best thing I ever did. It really changed my marriage. I hope this helps, I really do. Good luck, and reming your wife why she fell in love with you in the first place. Good Luck!!!
See if she will agree to marriage counseling. That could be your only hope.
She needs to believe you. You didn’t mention how you messed up before, but she must still have some feelings for you because u were sleeping together during separation. It hurts, I know. You have to show her that you really, really changed. Try to listen to her with all your heart and mind, instead of listening to yourself listening to her. I hope you know the difference.