how to make my ex come back?
My ex fiance and i have been split up 3 months. we only broke up because we were growing apart with me going back to school and him starting a new job. Things kind of became dull and he said he was unhappy. Since the broke up we have talked some but not in the last 2 weeks. I know he is thinking about me because we both have blackberries and on his blackberry messenger since christmas he has been putting up status’ that relate to us. One said "wants to hear her say papi" which is what i called him. another state "can’t stop thinking about you" which he has told me when we have talked that he tries but can’t stop. This morning it said "good morning beautiful how was your night" and last night it said "going out but only having one beer because i don’t want to upset you" because the biggest fights we have had since we broke up was over him drinking alot. Knowing him and us being together for 3 years he’s never been one to post things like that even when we were happy together so anyways his last status last night said "talk to me" i’m 99% sure these post are directed at me but to afraid to say something and look stupid. I do want him back and i’m wondering how i can get him to talk to me first or actually show me if he wants me back because he is the one that left. Thanks
So his status last night said let’s make it official cause I want you girl. I wasn’t sure if that was meant to me or not so I waited until this morning and changed mine to show me. Now he just changed his status to waiting on tonight. Not sure if that’s referencing my statement or not. What do you think and what can I put on mine if it is to let him know I’m interested without going overboard?
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Just keep seeing what he puts up and if it pertains to you respond back with something he use to say..I guess make it a game until one of you breaks. lol
Call him, tell him you want him back. Tell him you feel empty and cold without him being there with you, that you don’t feel right without him. He clearly wants you back, make it clear to him that you want him back. You might even want to go right over to where he is staying and tell him in person.
I would just stick my neck out and ask. You need to know. I would not put it in writing, because if he scr*ews you over, you do not want it out there in writing.
Fight fire with fire. You should also post messages that COULD be directed towards him and make sure he sees them. Then gauge his reaction. If he reads into your messages, you can go to the next step.
But beware, if he was the "immature" type, he could be playing games with your head but….nah….no I doubt it bc if he didn’t want to know anything more about you he wouldn’t bother posting anything that could be perceived as directed towards you.
You can’t. You can talk to him about it and lay your cards on the table. If he comes back, you’re back in business. If he doesn’t, you’re free to meet someone who will be there for you. Either way you have nothing to lose and need to stop living in limbo. Good luck.