Bad Breakup!! Will She ever come back and talk to me again or did i push to far?
Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraining order. During our time, she said he messed her up She told me initially that she lost feelings and wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumes that i lied/fooled her about things during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her by blood test. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her.
She does not want me to prove it and she claimed "that i am so erased from her life". She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted great to her i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she really stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADV
I feel that I pushed her to far. She wanted to be left alone and I couldn’t understand that. But now I do. And instead of mourning the lost of a gf, I have lost a friend which is even worse. Do any of you feel she still thinks of me, what would need to happen for her to call me again. I dont want to be thought ofd as a stalker, but it hurt cause i fell in love with her. I dated many women and i was never like this before, why is this happenening to me Thanks
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no she sounds like a bit of a headcase…just like you sound like a pathetic whipped pup crying cause your master is treating you badly. move on and get over it….if she does not respect your whipped pup act she sure is not gonna want to stay frens with that type of spinelessness.
Hey Man,
Reading your story I can literally feel your pain. I am almost in the exact same situation. And mine did me pretty dirty with the mind games she played with me in the end. But I can tell you this. As much as it hurts. We have to remember to be strong and just leave them alone at times. Silence speaks volumes.
When people get hurt really bad they tend to hurt other people without even really being conscious of it. Its quite possible that you were trully good to her and that the previous guy had damanged her so much that it was inevitable that your girl was going to take it out on the next guy who cared about her. Unfortunely that was you. It sounds like she is being very cold and calus to you which is exactly what mine did to me as well.
The difference though is once she said the “leave me alone” statement that one time. I thought to myself fine if that is what you want. That is what you will get. Women love the chase too it makes them think that you really care. When you dont chase they begin to wonder if you ever really even cared or if you were just playing with there emotions… With enough time eventually the missing phase will start and her insecurity will get the best of her. It usually always does. And just as you have let go and have began to move on. That is when she will call. At least in my expierence this is how it has worked. I hope this helps you. Remeber to be strong on focus on you. Only you can make yourself happy. Do not pine over her as hard as it may be. Put focus into what your are passionate about and do your very best not to put any type of negative focus into her. You will begin to slowly feel better each day.
-Will
best thing is to leave her alone and on her own
very difficult to do
has to DO IT
leave the female alone and she will come back hurrying