Comments on: I don't want to hold him back from his dream..but? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Insid http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/comment-page-1/#comment-39097 Insid Fri, 26 Feb 2010 07:40:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/#comment-39097 National Guard, It's the best of both worlds. I mean, yes, he'll get deployed, just as likely as if he'd joined active, but he gets to be home all the time, too. National Guard, It’s the best of both worlds.

I mean, yes, he’ll get deployed, just as likely as if he’d joined active, but he gets to be home all the time, too.

]]> By: kelly http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/comment-page-1/#comment-39098 kelly Fri, 26 Feb 2010 07:40:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/#comment-39098 you dont have to move in with him if he goes in the army. of corse you will be worried about him , but this is about him , not you. you should be supportive, going into the army is a big deal and he will see some very bad things. i very much doubt he will live by the beach, he will be sent to iraq. you say, his happiness or my happiness? lol, that is bad, your only thinking of yourself. try to show him that your pleased he's following his dream, even if your not, your ment to be his wife, not his mother. goodluck to your hubby. you dont have to move in with him if he goes in the army. of corse you will be worried about him , but this is about him , not you. you should be supportive, going into the army is a big deal and he will see some very bad things. i very much doubt he will live by the beach, he will be sent to iraq.
you say, his happiness or my happiness? lol, that is bad, your only thinking of yourself. try to show him that your pleased he’s following his dream, even if your not, your ment to be his wife, not his mother.
goodluck to your hubby.

]]> By: Jennifer http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/comment-page-1/#comment-39099 Jennifer Fri, 26 Feb 2010 07:40:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/#comment-39099 If he wants to be in the Army, then I think that you should encourage him to do so. Serving in the military is a selfless act and I'm sure he has his reasons for wanting to do so. It doesn't mean that he will be deployed right away and there are different positions you can hold, not just going out into combat. I know a guy who is in the NAVY with a desk job, he makes good money and gets to see his wife just about every day. It will be hard for you to be without him, but I think that knowing that someone who means the world to you is able to fulfill their dream will be enough to keep you happy. If he wants to be in the Army, then I think that you should encourage him to do so. Serving in the military is a selfless act and I’m sure he has his reasons for wanting to do so. It doesn’t mean that he will be deployed right away and there are different positions you can hold, not just going out into combat. I know a guy who is in the NAVY with a desk job, he makes good money and gets to see his wife just about every day.

It will be hard for you to be without him, but I think that knowing that someone who means the world to you is able to fulfill their dream will be enough to keep you happy.

]]> By: Babe http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/comment-page-1/#comment-39100 Babe Fri, 26 Feb 2010 07:40:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/#comment-39100 I would sit down and make a list of the positive and negative sides to this issue. Have him do the same then sit down and discuss it. This will effect both of your lives so you need to discuss it before you give your final answer.Communication is the key to a good marriage. I would sit down and make a list of the positive and negative sides to this issue. Have him do the same then sit down and discuss it. This will effect both of your lives so you need to discuss it before you give your final answer.Communication is the key to a good marriage.

]]> By: Brian http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/comment-page-1/#comment-39101 Brian Fri, 26 Feb 2010 07:40:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5680/i-dont-want-to-hold-him-back-from-his-dream-but/#comment-39101 When things are "discussed" prior to marriage it's to avoid things exactly like this!Sure you told him that you didn't want him to join but what did he say?Did he say he wanted to anyway but you thought in time he would change his mind instead of realizing you should've parted ways them or did you both agree he wouldn't and now he's changed his mind? If you feel that strongly about this it should've been a marriage deal breaker IF he didn't specifically say he wouldn't join. When things are "discussed" prior to marriage it’s to avoid things exactly like this!Sure you told him that you didn’t want him to join but what did he say?Did he say he wanted to anyway but you thought in time he would change his mind instead of realizing you should’ve parted ways them or did you both agree he wouldn’t and now he’s changed his mind?

If you feel that strongly about this it should’ve been a marriage deal breaker IF he didn’t specifically say he wouldn’t join.

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