My ex boyfriend wants to get back together with me, but he cheated on me.?
Me and my boyfriend was together for ten months, I fell in love with him. He cheated on my with his ex (but didnt have sex). Its been eleven months since he broke up wtih me. Now we have been talking opn and offf since, but now we have been talking about getting back together for 5 weeks, he is really trying to prove to me that he was stupid and that he wants me and me only, that he has worked on his self control, that he wont cheat on me again if i give him another chance. I really want to but i keep telling him that he will have to prove to me somethings before i will date him again. Is it a good idea to date him again if he proves to me he really means that he loves me and wants to be with me??
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I think you would be wasting you’re time.
No, it’s not a good idea to get back with him. If he cheated once, he’ll do it again. Try to move on.
once a cheater always a cheater.
Get him back by sleeping with a chicken first.
once a cheater, always a cheater……………..
Once a Cheater Always a Cheater
You don’t deserve him.
"but i keep telling him that he will have to prove to me somethings before i will date him again."
You’re not that attractive to chase after, you come off as really…what’s the word right bitchy.
I think you you are taking the right approach by making him prove A LOT of things to you. Start off real casual, and work from there.
So many people will say once a cheater always a cheater, not always true. People make bigger mistakes and learn from them, so if you love him and he loves you go for it, just be careful, keep your guard up for some time, just not forever.
Good luck.
People do change…always. You and I will never be the same throughout our respected lives, count on that. There are people and events that impact us and makes us reconsider things. Because of that we grow and mature in what is actually a life long process.
It’s not like you two have only been separated for 2 weeks. You can forgive…actually I hope you have forgiven, well you should have anyway. When someone does something real bad to me I go through that whole process of being upset and mad, but I end it with forgiving them. This way I can full-heartedly move forward and leave whomever in my past.
I completely understand if you don’t want to reconnect with him, it’s a tough hurdle, but one that can be accomplished. I’ve seen a couple get back together in your situation and now they are very happy together. I for one, still haven’t got back with a cheating ex…I have considered it, but I opted to stay single.
You need that trust to come back.
I’ll guarantee you that if you do get back together, for the first couple weeks, maybe the first month, you’ll feel like you made the best decision of your life. He’ll be completely focused on you, doing sweet things, making sure he’s perfect in your eyes. And you’ll love it, I promise. It’ll be some of the best days you’ve had with him.
But that will all wear off soon enough…
And then what you’re left with is actually having to deal with those issues when the lovey dovey stage dies down. And I think what you’ll find is that you’re not ready to trust someone who committed the ultimate betrayal against you. I think you’ll find that little things that you wouldn’t even pay attention to start to make you wonder… going out with his friends one night, not picking up his phone right away, buying new clothes. If you start to feel that sick feeling like something’s not right in these instances, that’ll remind you how you weren’t ready to jump back into this relationship.
Just remember. It’s more about you than him. He’ll never be able to convince you that he’ll never cheat. That’s something that you have to find within yourself.
people doubtfully always say move on, seems to be easlier said than done, mean you know this guy more than we do, do you really think he wouldnt never cheat on you again?trusting someone is never easy and your gonna have more reason to not trust him cause your always going to have that he cheated in the back of your mind, that he cheated once, whats gonna stop him now?we can easy give you all these answer that probably make you question everything more…at the end of the end, if your happy the nothing else matter! he doesnt deserve you if he cheated!