What does this email from my ex wife mean? does she want to get back with me?
(start from bottom)
From: miranda
To: eli
nevermind. good night.
From: eli
To: miranda
I am really confused.
From: miranda
To: eli
obviously you are over me. so im done.
From: eli
To: miranda
Why?
From: miranda
To: eli
fine. i will stop emailing you all together.
From: eli
To: miranda
I really wish things could have worked out between us. I was ready to start a family. I know this sounds kind of harsh, but sometimes life doesn’t turn out exactly how you want it to. There are good times and bad times and you have to just find strength to get through the bad times and hope for good times.
From: miranda
To: eli
as of right now i dont have anything to look forward to. i thought that after you get married you have kids and live happily ever after. not so.
From: eli
To: miranda
It is, but you are so young. You have a lot to look forward to.
From: miranda
To: eli
my mom was 22 when she had me and 26 when she had tessa.
the other day i was lisening to a song about life being too short. it really is too short.
From: eli
To: miranda
How old was your mom when she had you and Tessa?
From: miranda
To: eli
ya right. i probably wont even be married in the next 6 years.
From: eli
To: miranda
You will have kids before you are 30 I am sure of it. A few years isn’t gonna make that much difference.
From: miranda
To: eli
i wanted to have kids by the time i was 27. ha if im lucky i will have kids by 35. everything i had ever hoped for has been flushed down the toilet.
the wierd thing about this is whole thing is that the divorce was all her idea. i tried to stop it and she wasn’t having any of it.
and everytime I would talk to her i would start crying and saying i wanted her back and she kept saying that it was too late.
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This means one of three things…
She’s hormonal.
She is either taking/not taking her prescribed medication.
Her IQ is in the double digits.
I’m sorry, what was the question? I fell asleep in the middle of reading all this gripping material
she sounds as if she would like to get back with u, but doesn’t want to face any rejection from u, and wants u to be the first one to actually say u want her back. she seems to want a life with u, and regrets whatever caused the breakup, but won’t be the first one to say it out of fear that she will be hurt and rejected by u.
Very confusing. I think the one who said nvmd good night, is a very confused person. The one who says your so young has given up on the other. Is assuming they need to move on. I don’t have a clue who is saying what but I think the one who said nvmd actually cared but is giving up FAST. The one that says you have a lot to look forward to wants to move on without the other one. That is just my opinion. No one on either side sounds like they want the other very badly or they don’t know how to tell them they want them back. I say they both move on if they can’t comprimise and get along. There is a MAJOR communication GAP HERE! TALK TO EACH OTHER!
You are showing her signs of rejection in your first long message. Quit playing games with her or stop leading her on for nothing. She obviously knows what she wants and you are not reciprocating. This is how I read the messages.
If you truly don’t want her back, then say it how it is. Otherwise just make up and get on with the relationship.
She is the female, so you should be courting her, don’t expect her to chase you, it is not gentleman like.
Why did you say that you are confused? I am sure you know exactly what she means, that seemed as though you were waiting for her to grovel. And now you are asking us to confirm it for you.
To be brutally honest I think shes just freaking out about time ticking and the fact that she hasn’t had any kids yet and she thought (maybe)
"hey we were married once maybe we can work things out and I won’t have to go out find a new husband in order to start a new family"
and with this conversation she was testing the waters to see if you would go along with things
She is carrying baggage from the past…and has issues she needs to deal with…you can’t live with this rubbish…if you even considered getting back with her, make sure she has serious counselling first and then both get marriage counselling…take care of yourself!
1. she’s depressed
2. she wants to have children (with you??)
3. she wants to get back together with you but is afraid to make the first step.
Sounds to me like she is depressed and had hoped things would have moved faster than they have with you. She doesn’t imply she wants you back, it just sounds like she’s given up hope about anything altogether. I think you need to speak to her in person and try to be her friend, before thinking about getting back together.
in my opinion, she sounds desperate for a child. my advice: do NOT hook back up with her. it doesn’t sound like she genuinely loves you; she just wants you for a kid she THINKS she’s ready to have. to begin a family, the parents need to have a strong relationship where they both have loved each other and have been together for long enough that they know they are ready for a baby. your ex sounds like she is pretty hormonal and going through some ‘omg im almost 30′ phase. trust me, if she got pregnant right now, 6 months into the pregnancy she’ll probably regret it, and as a result that child might not have the good mother it deserved. just don’t get back with her and tell her she will have children when the time is right.
It is all mind games. Who needs it. Why are you emailing with your ex? Move on.