I want my husband back – does he want me?
Me and my husband were together for 5 years – we both were 20 when we got married so obviously we had a VERY rocky marriage. He cheated on me, I cheated on him – he was abusive when it happened – I went away on holiday on my own all the time, he chatted up 16 year old girls…and so much more. But I met up with him the other day and he couldn’t stop crying about how much he missed me and what we had. Prior to this he had also asked me back out when I was seeing another guy but then I told him it was not going to work. Now, I really want him back. I miss him so much and even though with all the bad stuff that happened between us I feel like I can’t live without having him near and I know he feels the same way as everytime I speak to him he sounds emotionally drained. Plus he said when we met the last time that he feels like no other girl would compare to me, even tho he had a girl. He slept with me a month ago when we both had other partners but I just want him back?
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You both need individual counseling and to discover what you are really like inside emotionally.
The marriage was a train wreck – why do it again? I can’t see it lasting forever if you do get back together. The old issues will come up and the arguments will start every time there is an issue to be worked out. My advice, just move on and learn more about yourself and enjoy the world.
If you feel you are both mature to be serious with one another this time around, then try it. Just make sure you don’t play anymore games.
Well, if you two both want to be together…why aren’t you two together? You’ll never know, but will always wonder what could have been, if you don’t atleast give it a try.
sounds like he wants you back also…
Ask him out….and see what it becomes
Good Luck to you…Everyone makes mistakes and if you both are meant to be you will be back together
i dont know it depends where your faith is …. If it is in GODs plan it will happen but sorry to let you know just move on the trust has allready been broken and there is no way a relationship will last with either one of you saying "are they cheating on me again??"
This can only work if you are willing to talk openly about what happened, and then forgive eachother and put it behind you. Only the two of you can decide if that’s possible.
I say you both need to have a serious talk about what you both really want and if it’s to be together then go for it. I feel the same way about my ex. I luv him very much and wish we could be back together but right now we both don’t got what it takes to make things work. So I say try and get back together if you both can give your 100% but if there is still doubts then just let things be. YOu’ll get back together and it will only make things worse if both of you can make the changes. Neither one of you are ready to move on. YOu need to deal with those emotions first whether you get back with him or not. If you don’t and try and move on you’ll never be happy and you will always compare the new person to your ex. You were both young when you married and now it’s time to grow up and make adult decisions. Good Luck.
It sounds like you two still have some chemistry but a lot of work to do. I would suggest getting marital counseling if you both truly want to give your marriage another go. Most health insurance companies cover this and often times you can get several or all sessions for free. This would give you both the opportunity to set some goals and boundaries. It is important to do this in order to avoid getting back to the previous problems. Best of luck!
He cheated once, he’ll cheat again. He chats up 16 year old girls, he’s chatting up YOU! Omigosh. Get a nice, well-rounded boyfriend, and forget this guy cuz he is definetly trouble!
You and your husband obviously love each other, but you need to ask yourselves, is love enough to sustain your relationship? Before getting back together you both need to get into some serious counselling so that you both learn how to deal with marital conflict in a more constructive way. Cheating and abusive behaviour is not a healthy way to be in a marriage. Talk to each other about the possibility of working on the marriage without having sex. As sex will only confuse the emotional state you both are in. Get into therapy and work out the issues that broke you both up to begin with. Otherwise if you both just back together without the therapy you run a good chance of breaking up again. Best of luck to you both.
For this problem, it is in the both of you. I am sure there is an answer to the problem for you, however, you will have to be the one to embrace it. I wished I could make it flowery for you, but, this is a dangerous game. You cannot legislate morality. Only immorality (after something happens.) Too many people are involved, no good thing can come of it. Sneaking is blind, but others see.
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