I went on my boyfriends computer,and he didnt know it,now he wants to break up?How can I fix it?
I felt he was hiding something from me,,had and intuition he was on a personals site…We have been together for a year
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You had to respect his privacy. If he wanted to tell you something, there was a time and place for it. He feels totally violated, even if there wasn’t anythng to hide. Talk to him, tell him you knew you were wrong and ask him to forgive you.
Respect people’s personal space. You may have lost his trust forever.
Obviously he is hiding something if he wants to break up over you going on his pc. If he’s on a personals website then maybe it’s best you move on because obviously he isn’t being 100% faithful to you if he’s looking at and talking to other single women.
seems you dont trust him sweetie…trust is a big thing….apologize and tell him why give him some space for a few days
tell him you love him and you miss him and you will never love again
If he’s hiding something from you its an bad relationship because who knows what he’s hiding.
if he wants to break up with you then just let him break up with you. if he’s saying he wants to break up with you over a stupid thing like that then he’s just using it as an excuse and really wants to break up with you and doens’t really know anything else better to blame it on, but he’s not worth it, let him go.
Need more details?…he wants to break up BECAUSE you went on his computer?…that’s stupid..i mean he can be mad for u not trusting him but you have the right to know what is going on in his life and he has no right to be mad if you were right about your intuition that he was on a personal’s sight…appologize if necessary…good luck!
well was he on them or not? Its kinda sneaky to just go on his computer and do that. It is his personal space and property. Its no wonder he wants to break up with you. Theres a lack of trust in this relationship. Trust is key for any relationship to work.
Good luck
omgg… just because of thatt?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!
Its a SMALL thing!! . . . .
………. naaahhh… don’t fix that… just leave him…. @@
besides… i m sure there’s the… "no TRUST" thing between you two now already…..
You proved that you don’t trust him, so yes he is going to be upset. Just really talk to him and assure him that the next time that you feel insecure that you will discuss it with him. Let him know that you are sorry and feel bad about invading his privacy – good luck! If he loves you then he will forgive!
Ya know – if he’s having that much of a fit over something so insignificant I would really look hard at your relationship and what you could be headed into long term.
Sounds to me like your boyfriend needs to get a grip and choose his battles wisely.
He wants to break up over that – well, I am guessing that he’s got stuff to hide and frankly, if that is the case you don’t need a man like that – secrets should not be a part of any good relationship.
Since you are trying to make it better, and not complaining about him doing it. I guess he wasnt. What can you do to make it better? You dont trust him and are checking his personal stuff. Dont do that
that was a mistake in your part..but tell him..that you guys should be completely honest from now on..or this isnt going to go ne where…and make sure that you stick to that too….
i think its better you end it now he is hiding something
Don’t fix it, that my opinion. If hes on a dating website (which I got the empression of not sure if I’m correct) he isn’t worth you or your time. Get a new man that will treat youu right.
Take care, & I hope all works out for you!!
tell him the truth.
you shouldn’t have done that, but i know what you were feeling. my boyfriend gave me his password and everything for myspace, and one day i sent him an email, but wanted to take it back before he read it. so, i logged on and deleted it..i know he probably wouldn’t have cared that i was on, but i wasn’t completely sure so i didn’t tell anyone…btw why did you guys bread up? Your headline doesn’t make sense..
Just go up to him and say sorry. I did’nt know you was going to get mad and im really sorry please don’t get mad at me please,
Fixit by being yourself. If anyone hides their lives, then they are not ready to share their lives.
It also means they flunked kindergarten, which taught to share as the first principle.
if he wants to break up , he probably was cheatin, sorry
going on someone elses computer is ok in certain situations,
If you were just going to check your email for a few minutes thatn thats fine with me, and most people as long as you ask permission.
If you thought that the other person was hiding something and you went through there music, documents, or history than thats wrong even, if you did ask the persons permission to be on the computer.
I am NOT saying that you were doing this, but there are better ways to find out if your Boy friend is cheating on you or not.
If he is on a dating site than that probably means that he no longer likes you and he might have found someone else on the internet and that may be why he wants to break up, or he could have been liking someone else for sometime and than your decision might have just made him think that you werent the one.
I am assuming that a "personals site" is a dating website
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Hes dosnt deserve you, if he gets mad over stupid things like that chances are he not good in the long run, and yes i do think he was possibly even thinking about leaving
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