Comments on: Emotional Affair over but wife still has concerns.. anything I can do to save marriage? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: ROBERT http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-70200 ROBERT Sat, 14 Aug 2010 16:35:40 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/#comment-70200 MY WIFE DID THIS TO ME, 5 WEEKS OF CALLING HIM WHEN I AM AT WORK, GOING TO HIS HOUSE FOR DINNER BUT STILL SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED. TO ME STILL THE SAME. I AM AT A CONFUSED STAGE TO FORGIVE OR END THIS,BUT PHYSICAL OR EMOTIONAL, STILL THE SAME AND IT IS UP TO ME OR (HER) IN YOU CASE TO FORGIVE OR GIVEUP. GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND ME. I AM REALLY HAVING TROUBLE WITH THIS, WE WERE TOGETHER 17 YEARS BUT MARRIED FOR 6. STILL REALLY CONFUSED.. GOOD LUCK AGAIN MY WIFE DID THIS TO ME, 5 WEEKS OF CALLING HIM WHEN I AM AT WORK, GOING TO HIS HOUSE FOR DINNER BUT STILL SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED. TO ME STILL THE SAME. I AM AT A CONFUSED STAGE TO FORGIVE OR END THIS,BUT PHYSICAL OR EMOTIONAL, STILL THE SAME AND IT IS UP TO ME OR (HER) IN YOU CASE TO FORGIVE OR GIVEUP. GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND ME. I AM REALLY HAVING TROUBLE WITH THIS, WE WERE TOGETHER 17 YEARS BUT MARRIED FOR 6. STILL REALLY CONFUSED.. GOOD LUCK AGAIN

]]> By: ROBERT http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-70198 ROBERT Sat, 14 Aug 2010 16:23:56 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/#comment-70198 MY WIFE DID THIS TO ME, 5 WEEKS OF CALLING HIM WHEN I AM AT WORK, GOING TO HIS HOUSE FOR DINNER BUT STILL SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED. TO ME STILL THE SAME. I AM AT A CONFUSED STAGE TO FORGIVE OR END THIS,BUT PHYSICAL OR EMOTIONAL, STILL THE SAME AND IT IS UP TO ME OR (HER) IN YOU CASE TO FORGIVE OR GIVEUP. GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND ME. I AM REALLY HAVING TROUBLE WITH THIS, WE WERE TOGETHER 17 YEARS BUT MARRIED FOR 6. STILL REALLY CONFUSED.. GOOD LUCK AGAIN MY WIFE DID THIS TO ME, 5 WEEKS OF CALLING HIM WHEN I AM AT WORK, GOING TO HIS HOUSE FOR DINNER BUT STILL SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED. TO ME STILL THE SAME. I AM AT A CONFUSED STAGE TO FORGIVE OR END THIS,BUT PHYSICAL OR EMOTIONAL, STILL THE SAME AND IT IS UP TO ME OR (HER) IN YOU CASE TO FORGIVE OR GIVEUP. GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND ME. I AM REALLY HAVING TROUBLE WITH THIS, WE WERE TOGETHER 17 YEARS BUT MARRIED FOR 6. STILL REALLY CONFUSED.. GOOD LUCK AGAIN

]]> By: kitty http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-39674 kitty Sun, 28 Feb 2010 04:53:44 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/#comment-39674 First of all, props for telling the truth five minutes after the lie. I should be so lucky. An emotional affair is harder to get over. You shared personal things with this woman, maybe even told her things you never confided in her about, bonded with this woman. Emotional affair always start off as friendship and easily becomes something more. People think this is harmless, but it is the most damaging than a quick bang. The energy you used to to hide this affair could have been used to solidify your marriage, because apparently this woman loved you more than you thought or she wouldn't have been this upset. You broke trust, fix it. If she needs to talk and rant, listen, even if it hurts to hear. You were lonely, I get it. You were flying high with this girl and now you are falling hard. no sex didn't seem to matter. she needs to know if it is truly over and the only person who would know that is you. She needs time. It will never be he same type of marriage you had before, be okay with that and start something new with her. She may forgive, but she wont forget. Good luck. First of all, props for telling the truth five minutes after the lie. I should be so lucky. An emotional affair is harder to get over. You shared personal things with this woman, maybe even told her things you never confided in her about, bonded with this woman. Emotional affair always start off as friendship and easily becomes something more. People think this is harmless, but it is the most damaging than a quick bang. The energy you used to to hide this affair could have been used to solidify your marriage, because apparently this woman loved you more than you thought or she wouldn’t have been this upset.

You broke trust, fix it. If she needs to talk and rant, listen, even if it hurts to hear. You were lonely, I get it. You were flying high with this girl and now you are falling hard. no sex didn’t seem to matter. she needs to know if it is truly over and the only person who would know that is you. She needs time. It will never be he same type of marriage you had before, be okay with that and start something new with her. She may forgive, but she wont forget. Good luck.

]]> By: T P http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-39675 T P Sun, 28 Feb 2010 04:53:44 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/#comment-39675 the mistake you made was hiding the truth, if you approached it as non-chalant then she would accept it. However, now your wife will question everything that you say. the mistake you made was hiding the truth, if you approached it as non-chalant then she would accept it. However, now your wife will question everything that you say.

]]> By: Happy-2 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-39676 Happy-2 Sun, 28 Feb 2010 04:53:44 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5773/emotional-affair-over-but-wife-still-has-concerns-anything-i-can-do-to-save-marriage/#comment-39676 I think that Step 1 would be to stop minimizing. You're not even telling us the whole story. Going out to lunch alone twice and texting "how are you doing" texts doesn't qualify as an emotional affair. What feelings did you share, and what fantasies? What kind of intimate conversations did you have, and what did you talk about? Your wife is angry because you're not telling her the whole story, and I don't blame her, because it's obvious you're not. I think that Step 1 would be to stop minimizing. You’re not even telling us the whole story. Going out to lunch alone twice and texting "how are you doing" texts doesn’t qualify as an emotional affair. What feelings did you share, and what fantasies? What kind of intimate conversations did you have, and what did you talk about? Your wife is angry because you’re not telling her the whole story, and I don’t blame her, because it’s obvious you’re not.

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