Comments on: My first heartbreak…What should I do now that I’m single, and heartbroken, but still love him? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5786/my-first-heartbreak-what-should-i-do-now-that-im-single-and-heartbroken-but-still-love-him/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: designgirl http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5786/my-first-heartbreak-what-should-i-do-now-that-im-single-and-heartbroken-but-still-love-him/comment-page-1/#comment-39770 designgirl Sun, 28 Feb 2010 12:00:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5786/my-first-heartbreak-what-should-i-do-now-that-im-single-and-heartbroken-but-still-love-him/#comment-39770 Wow honey...it's obvious you still love this guy. But it's also obvious that, for whatever reason, Matt just isn't at the level you are. So here's a bit of advice: Chasing him will only push him away. I know it's hard, but you've got to move on and truly accept "just friendship". He knows he hurt you. And that you want him back. But men typically freak out when a woman is clingy and dropping obvious hints about getting back together. The only thing you can do right now is heal. Live your life. Learn from this experience. And, as you grow more independent, Matt just might come back around. Besides - it sounds like something in his own life that really cause the breakup. Not you. So girl, you are STRONG and you are WHOLE and there are exciting things ahead. If Matt comes back to you, then great. But now is the time to find who you are - without him. Wow honey…it’s obvious you still love this guy. But it’s also obvious that, for whatever reason, Matt just isn’t at the level you are. So here’s a bit of advice:

Chasing him will only push him away. I know it’s hard, but you’ve got to move on and truly accept "just friendship". He knows he hurt you. And that you want him back. But men typically freak out when a woman is clingy and dropping obvious hints about getting back together.

The only thing you can do right now is heal. Live your life. Learn from this experience. And, as you grow more independent, Matt just might come back around. Besides – it sounds like something in his own life that really cause the breakup. Not you.

So girl, you are STRONG and you are WHOLE and there are exciting things ahead. If Matt comes back to you, then great. But now is the time to find who you are – without him.

]]> By: Pinky http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5786/my-first-heartbreak-what-should-i-do-now-that-im-single-and-heartbroken-but-still-love-him/comment-page-1/#comment-39771 Pinky Sun, 28 Feb 2010 12:00:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5786/my-first-heartbreak-what-should-i-do-now-that-im-single-and-heartbroken-but-still-love-him/#comment-39771 Just be strong and accept that Matt is not a part of your life anymore. You can go and sign up to www.lovingyou.com and meet with people in same situation and exchange ideas how to cope with it. Good luck to you. Just be strong and accept that Matt is not a part of your life anymore.
You can go and sign up to http://www.lovingyou.com and meet with people in same situation and exchange ideas how to cope with it.
Good luck to you.

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